Today I have invited Tyan Winters to my TPOL because she is really important to me and I live with her 50% percent of the time. She demonstrates respect to everybody, to her employees by helping them understand if something is going wrong or if they need help, also to her family by always making time to go to her children's events even when she is super busy and stressed because of their business, and she demonstrates respect to our family by always having us over for a fun time, making us food and taking us to a lot of things, and handling Cody and I even when we are being crazy with Gunner. She helps refine her business all the time by adding new  things and changing parts for the better. She demonstrates integrity by doing the right thing like with her business even if she is already super stressed out by other things, and does the right thing when it comes to her kids and she is always honest to them and us. But most of all she puts in so much effort into so many things, she helps run an entire business and does so much stuff for it, she does so much for her kids and supports what they do and always drives them to their activities. Lastly she puts a lot of effort into having us over because Cody can be a lot to handle, I’m just kidding, but actually she always makes sure we’re comfortable, and happy, and will actually be taking us for a week in the first week of June so my Parents can go on a vacation and taking care of 2 kids is already enough but taking care of 5 kids is going to be crazy and I would like to thank you so much for taking us for that. I try to be like Tyan by trying to be able to do so much and still be kind to everybody around me.

My goal for integrity is to Hold others accountable. 

This is what I commit to doing that will contribute to me accomplishing

my goal for Integrity is to tell people that what they are doing is wrong, like if they are playing games. 

Others will know I'm actually doing it when they see me reminding people to do the right thing. 

The difference it will make is that people might start doing the right thing.

My goal for refinement is to actively seek feedback from others in order to revise my work.

This is what I commit to doing that will contribute to me accomplishing

my goal for Refinement is to ask for feedback from teachers and peers to see what I can do better. 

Others will know I'm actually doing it when they see me asking for feedback from people and making my work better. 

The difference it will make is that my work will get very good and I will get a lot better at my work. 

At the beginning of the year, I believed that being helpful meant providing assistance in any circumstance, whether it be emotional, physical, or mental. By the end of the year my definition of being helpful did not change. Being helpful is something that I just love to do, being helpful just makes me feel happy and better about myself, and like its been scientifically proven that being kind and helping produces the chemicals oxytocin, dopamine, and serotonin and these chemicals help stabilize your mood/make you calmer, provides satisfaction and motivation, reduces inflammation and blood pressure, and provides feelings of euphoria which is extreme happiness. A good example of me being helpful is during our middle school mission trip with our church which I talked about in my impact part where Cody and I and many other people cleaned up bad houses and repainted them so some people could move into them. I also try to be helpful by checking on people when they look down, pick up more things than I need to, volunteer to help when asked, and help when something goes wrong.