To be a great donor means to be someone who selflessly gives to other souls all the treasures he has received. Only souls who are beyond selfishness can become great donors. A bestower of blessings will constantly experience himself to be full of the treasures of virtues, powers and knowledge. The first renunciation is the renunciation of the consciousness of your body. The second is the renunciation of the connections of the body. The third aspect is that of the relationships of people with your body. All relations are included in this. You have to be a great renunciate in both types of relationships, that is, you have to be a destroyer of attachment. The sign of being a destroyer of attachment in both types of relationships is that there will neither be dislike for anyone, nor will there be attachment or subservience to anyone. If you dislike anyone, then the defects of that person, or the actions that you don’t like performed by that one will repeatedly disturb your intellect.
When you experience a problem in life, or there is some confusion in your heart, even against your conscious wish, you will only remember the soul who has given you some temporary support, someone who has given you some temporary attainment or a soul to whom you have attachment; you won't remember the Father. Then, once again, what do the souls who have such attachment think and say in order to justify themselves and defend themselves? That the Father is incorporeal and subtle; that someone in the corporeal form is definitely needed. However, you forget that, if you have the relationship of all attainments with the one Father, if you experience all relationships and you trust and have very firm faith in the Bestower of Support, then, although BapDada is incorporeal and subtle, He is bound to you in the bond of love. He gives you the feeling of the corporeal form. What is the reason why you don’t experience this?