Date Night 

• 1. Commit to the Night: You both agreed to come so be present.

  2. Create 3 commitments for the night: These are your expectations for the night. Be intentional with what you both are seeking.

Example: We are committing to being spontaneous, loving and open. 

• 3. Do not talk about children or work on ReConnection nights: This is about you..the couple. Not your role as parents or your careers.

  4. Do not talk about any challenges on ReConnection nights: This is not the time for that.

If a disagreement occurs. Stop, ReConnect (face one another, hold hands. Stare at each other in silence for 3 minutes) and ReCommit with a kiss. 

• 5. Create moments for emotional intimacy: This is the time to be open and vulnerable with your partner. 

  6. Close every ReConnection Date Night with some form of physical intimacy.

• Phase I: Attraction (24 Hours Before Date Night)

The attraction phase begins 24 hours before date night, encouraging couples to be intentional as they set the tone for the experience. Everything from your mindset to your date night attire should elevate the anticipation. Use this time to enhance your attraction and prepare for a memorable night together. 

• Phase II: Courting (7:00– 8:00 PM)
  Begin the evening with our signature cocktails and a warm, intimate dinner as you ease into connection with your partner. Capture a lasting memory with a photo in the lounge, then let the atmosphere deepen as Elijah Herring’s soulful saxophone.

• Phase III: Date Night (8:00 - 8:45 PM)

     Couples introductions and then we move into Couple Cues, a playful Icebreaker.

• Break (8:45 - 9:00 PM)

• Phase IV: Foreplay "Truth & Connection" (9:00 – 9:35 PM)

Couples will engage in intimacy-building questions and activities.

• Phase V: Intimacy (9:15 – 9:45 PM)

Couples participate an intimate dessert feeding and dancing.

• Raffle/ Closing (9:45 - 10:00 PM)

Please arrive on time. This is an estimated time line. 

Couples will NOT be permitted after Courting.