Defiance is a pattern of resisting, refusing, or challenging authority or expectations
Arguing
Ignoring directions
Saying “no” or refusing
Deliberate non-compliance
Testing limits
Aggression is behavior intended to harm, intimidate, or control someone or something
Physical: hitting, kicking, throwing items
Verbal: yelling, threats, insults
Relational: excluding, manipulating, damaging relationships
Self-directed: self-injury, head banging
Escape/Avoidance
Overall reason: The child wants to escape something or avoid something
Example reasons:
Task too hard
Overwhelming
Boring
Attention
Overall reason: The child wants attention. This can be negative or positive. Example reason:
Sibling is getting attention
Access to Something
Overall reason: The child wants access to something.
Example reasons:
Hungry so they want food
They want screen time
Sensory Needs
Gain a pleasing sensation
Avoid an uncomfortable sensation