Lorenzo DeMalia
Why I'm Happy My Dad Died?
A Seven Poem Series
Why I’m Happy
I like telling strangers my dad died
Not for their sympathy
But to watch their minds contemplate
how to show me pity
Is this wrong?
Should i say it’s a joke
I’m not really fucked up
I’m a poet
it’s not for you,
It’s for me
Sometimes it’s not real
It’s a dream
Right?
My friends make the same jokes
I love them, I hate them
I am happy my dad died
I dress in extravagant clothes
Dye my hair, paint my nails
Express my sexuality.
I stand here and scream FUCK
What a rush
I write poetry
I only get slapped when I want I
have control of my tongue again
Window Pains
My hands are pressed against the screen of a three-layered slab of glass
We somehow named a window
What does the word window even mean though?
What does the word “word” even mean?
Everything needs to have a meaning
Every letter in every alphabet every...... every black and white key
On that piano I promised your grandmother I would use
Only if she could see the layers of dust that have established a home
Where my fingers were supposed to dance in sweet harmony to rhythms of Beethoven or Bach
Neither
Of which I honestly give a single fuck about
But i am supposed to care
you must be smart Lorenzo
Get good grades Lorenzo
Find a wife
settle down Lorenzo
Make me proud you are a man
You are my son Lorenzo
I don’t know though, am i?
I want to describe the details of Mozart’s compositions
I want to proclaim the brilliance of Aristotle’s Metaphysics
I want to be able to subvert expectations
I want to stop pretending I know what subverting expectations mean!!!
I DON’T want to tell you why I scratch the skin off my face
Why I shave my arms
Why I write poetry and cry when i see the leaves of an oak tree sway in the wind
Fuck the square root of 56 or compiling a list of obligations to appease a stranger
So i may finally feed myself
I don’t want to tell you
I don’t want to tell you why I have meaning
I don’t want to have meaning
Nail Polish
I want to paint my nails, to feel pretty
Or maybe to feel quirky
maybe to make my dad hate me
I slide the brush into black paint
Not knowing how
I’ll apply it to my fingers
Solvent, Burning my eyelids
It was lovely,
A drop slides off my finger onto grandma’s rug
I pour another drop out
I walked to my fathers room
Wave my hands flamboyantly
Silence rang out
Only the spider
Dancing upon
it’s freshly woven web
Noticed me
Love Dad
What is wrong with you?
Did I drop you on your head when you were born? Did you
stay up all night or are your eyes naturally lifeless? You
write these poems that are uninspired and boring, Sleep all
day, write garbage all night
Why are you so tired you sleep all day!
Do you want to succeed, do you even want to breathe? I
can't tell from that smell of weed under your door No, my
door this is my bedroom you sleep in I need to yell at you
to get it through your thick skull Force disciple down your
throat with your ADHD medicine Your mind is not right,
You must be better
Smarter
You are embarrassing me don’t you see
You can’t see because your eyes are still shut
WHY ARE YOU SO TIRED!
When will you stop blaring that god-awful music?
Cut your damn hair you look like a wannabe drugie
With those scars on your wrists at least make it deeper
So you don’t look like such a bitch
Change your jeans for fuck sake
Do you even clean your face?
Your beard looks like it’s never been shaved
Yet your neck has more scars than your wrist
Get the fuck out of bed!
You think this life is free
That poetry and clever wordplay are enough
No woman wants a man who masturbates to words
Have you even lifted your weights today?
You’re scrawnier than me eat
Make me proud for fuck sake.
You need to be better Lorenzo
Pay more attention in class
Get your head out your ass
Stop dreaming of space
Focus on filling the space in your head
There’s more than enough there to keep you grounded till
You crawl back into your bed
Your future is in shambles put down that pen
You’re the reason I’m dying
God, you embarrass me
I love you
I want to love you
I will always love you
Let me love you
I will help you
I will help you if you help me
July 30th, 2018
I’m happy I saw his face decay
Shades of white fade away
His eyes turn yellow
Skin Green
While my mom rubbed his bloated feet
I’m happy I said goodbye
That I looked into the shell of a man
Who no longer could hurt me
No longer could love me
That my eyes crossed his unknowing gaze
Without letting a tear fall from my face
I’m happy I didn’t see his last breath
But his body laying on the kitchen floor
Where we lied to each other so many times before That I
saw my brother slamming his chest with his hands While
we prayed that some beads
Could make his heart beat
EMT’S burst into what was supposed to be a home
In cover of flashing lights and blue scrubs
Inject his body with silent lightning
One.... two... three. CLEAR
Repeated while his body hit the floor
My brothers arms wrapped around me
Begging me not to watch
Tossed into the back of an ambulance
That was suppose to save the day
asking if I was okay?
I needed to see that black bag zip shut
No, I was not okay
Nor am I today
I’m fucked in the head
I fantasize about death everynight before bed.
We shall name him _______
This poem belongs to
L o r e n z o
There goes blood down my throat again
God i hate this name you gave me
It’s syllables stings the tongue
That i’ve grown hopelessly addicted to
I bite my lip every time i introduce myself
To remind myself of you
To remind me i’m you
It’s warmth depends on how badly i clench my teeth
How sharply i pinch my lip
Till i can’t breathe
Fuck
i love when i can’t breathe
It makes me feel alive
I’m a sociopath,
or i like to tell that lie
It’s easier than describing
the throbbing in my stomach
the blood flowing from my eyes
That’s how I say I cry
Water is too relieving.
I just wanna feel your hate one more time
When you say my name
I need to hate you
Or i'll have nothing distract me
From the fact I hate myself.
Cemetery Talks
Stone carved with a name I hate
A name I refuse to give to another
The reason i’ll never love
Your fucked up idea of who i was
Carved a letter in my heart
That can’t be undone
Maybe I’m too cowardly to find out
I love the trauma you gave me
Is that wrong to say?
I hope it is
being shocking is addicting
Just like being hit is
I punch myself in the face sometimes I like
when people ask why i have a black eye It
reminds me of our days together
Now i only see you at night
I see your eyes in the reflection of my glasses
Covered in scratches
Just like me
You made me into a liar
I love blaming my pain on you
Blaming me on you
It eases my stomach when i drink till i vomit
When my lungs start begging
For something with lead in it
I am addicted to your death
I try everyday to be everything you would hate
I even fail at that
I will end up just like you
Beneath this stone rotting away
I can only hope someone will hate me enough
To sit here and curse my name
I know they won’t
Nobody knows who I am
I spend my days talking to a dead man.