To make a space for students (or any group in the educational environment) to set boundaries and discuss what they envision their ideal ways of relating to one another within their shared space are. This models as a group based on open communication and giving and asking for consent.
In this activity the group is invited to make as well as to listen to proposals of their peers in order to gradually build a consent-based contract of agreements for sharing the space.
The activity proposes ways we can use our power to bring consent into all our relationships, interactions, and cultures.
In schools, rules are distributed in a top- bottom manner, as opposed to as a process of discussion and co-creation with dialogue. That way, many school rules and regulations are indeed, not consensual.
Having students create their classroom rules by discussing collectively what they need and want as a group in order to be able to work and feel good together in their shared space/classroom is a key highlight of this practice.
Through open communication and by taking into consideration one another’s ideas and listening to everyone’s voice, students learn the importance of voicing their needs as the basis for open and honest communication. Students also learn the boundaries of any group which accepts and includes everyone’s right to exist in the space with dignity and respect. The contract they make with each other will be periodically discussed as a group so this process will continue and students will be able to express their opinions and rearrange their contract.
This practice is informed by the guide of good practices and prevention activities focusing on consent for field professionals https://press.genderhood.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/10/DEL.2.7_GUIDE_OF_GOOD_PRACTICES_EN.pdf