Welcome visitors and members! Listed below our Club Announcements is our latest weekly meeting snapshot to give you a flavor of the challenging, thought-provoking, and FUN times to be had at a Contrarians Toastmasters meeting.
October 14th, 2015
Theme: Senior Living
October 6, 2015
September 30, 2015
Theme: Text Messaging
September 16, 2015
Theme: Tall Tales and Evaluations Contest
September 9th, 2015
Theme: Religious Persecution
Has you ever heard of the "calm before the storm"? Well that's how the Contrarians meeting played out this past week. You see our Club is hosting our Club Contest this coming Wednesday and we expect a large turn out for the event. In the meantime, we had a wonderful meeting in which our attendance was approximately 12-15 people, and we had a interesting mix of adventure and irreligious persecution from our very own Sasha Sydoruk and Jeremiah Hensley. Table Topics were hosted by Mellodee and covered animals, aliens and Bob earning the coveted Best Table Topics award. Jeremiah and Nayan rounded out the winners circle and gifted everyone present with outstanding content and a good time! Next up, the stormy good times with our club contest! If attending, we remind you to come early since the meeting starts at 6:15PM. If possible, please join us by 6:00PM.
September 2nd, 2015
Theme: 3D Printers, Open Source, and Torrent Sites
The meeting was excellent. This was a very peculiar subject, I didn't know what to expect.
Was it about printers, Open Source and Torrent Sites or was it about imagining an open source in the woods with Torrent Waterfalls?
It was Paula's 1st role as Toastmasters and she did an excellent job, she was definitely prepared for the role. Our open thought was Farzad and it was his first time as well and he nailed it.
We had 3 speakers tonight, Nayan taught us about Yoga and how beneficial for our health is...I will definitely continue going to my Yoga classes. Angela spoke about a beautiful and romantic story and everything in between of a Hitchhiker traveling ten thousand miles to see the love of his life...Would you consider giving a lift to someone that is hitchhiking on the road? What would you do? Our third speaker made us think about the future, Rich shared about how can you retired and have money to travel and have freedom.
Our Table Topic Masters was Fernando and I am certainly glad it wasn't me. He is the one that chose the subject, therefore, might as well direct the questions related to the theme subject. But of course, it is Fernando, and he made it so much interesting and entertaining for us, not too techy, and definitely not boring.
We had 3 winners tonight Angela for Best Speaker, Nick for best Table Topics Speaker, and Max for best Evaluator.
Our attendance was great we had about 27 in the room and we had 9 guests tonight! Thank you so much for coming and for sharing your feedback to us. We thrive for excellence and to be one of the bests clubs in Orange County.
August 26th, 2015
Theme: Fast Food vs Haute Cuisine
Once someone mentioned their love for kimchi, our meeting theme swiftly transitioned from “Fast Food vs. Haute Cuisine” to “We Want Kimchi and We Want it NOW.”
Tonight’s creative uses of kimchi included kimchi food trucks, kimchi lotion, and kimchi mints. We all seemed to agree that although kimchi is one of the smelliest side dishes, it tastes delicious.
Our two prepared speakers tonight, Paula and Juergen, did a fantastic job.
As Paula mentioned in her last speech, she absolutely adores dogs. This week she went further and explored dogtology, a dog-centric religion. How much do you love your dog? If you love your dog like a family member, you might be interested in reading more on dogtology. One of our members received a free copy of the book Dogtology by Jeff Lazarus. Happy reading!
Our second prepared speaker, Juergen, enumerated the many places he’s traveled and the food he had the opportunity to eat. “When I think of a location, I think of food.” For example, when he traveled to Kyoto, Japan, the “exotic” food was a baked potato. When he traveled to Seoul, Korea, he ate a hamburger with three french fries served in a pillbox. But when he comes home from traveling, he always realizes that his favorite place is his backyard.
Karolina, our Table Topics Master, asked questions that resulted not only in the outpour of appreciations for Kimchi, but also comments on GMOs, Soylent, and interestingly, tiger penis soup. It always interests me that each week, our members continue to come up with informative, whimsical, or thought-provoking answers.
Many thanks goes out to Marlene who acted as Toastmaster tonight, our Grammarian Ray and our Ah Counter Farzad.
We meet Wednesday nights from 6:30-8:00PM. Please check us out; we’d love to have you as a guest.
August 19th, 2015
Theme: Nouveau Riche
The meeting started out with Marlene telling us how wealth many times allows people to avoid the consequences of their actions.
Moving on to our Prepared Speeches, our first speaker, Farzad, discussed his fear of public speaking and some of the ways he was learning to combat his fears. Our second speaker, Bob, decided to allow the crowd to tell him the who, what, when, where, and why’s of his impromptu speech known as a 5W. We laughed as he spoke of Bill Cosby’s chance encounter with Bill Clinton in the year 2050.
Next, during our Table Topics section, Joe provided plenty of interesting questions about the Nouveau Riche or New Money for members and guests alike. Fernando, never one to disappoint, decided to discuss 50 cent and his path to success after being shot 9 times. While Alicia decided the best way to a sell a house is to show each room as a potential copulation area. Smart move, in my opinion.
Our evaluators, Mellodee and Marlene, evaluated both speeches superbly. They used what is commonly referred to as the sandwich method. The sandwich method starts with telling someone what they did well, followed by suggestions for improvement, then ending again with more praise. This allows the speakers the opportunity for maximum growth because they understand not only what they need to work on, but also what they did well.
Nearing the end of the meeting, our Toastmaster, Max, handed out ribbons for
Best Table Topics: Fernando
If you are worried about being forced to participate, there’s no need. We are all at different levels in our journey and we were all just as nervous to speak in front of a crowd as you are. We are a diverse group of people who enjoy a wide range of topics to discuss. Please join us. You won’t be disappointed.
August 12th, 2015
Hi out there to all of you who are interested in experiencing the adventure of publicly speaking in a friendly yet challenging place. Our Contrarians Toastmasters group fills that bill.
On August 12th, Our meeting theme was “Wanderlust”. After our Sergeant at Arms, Jeremiah, called the meeting to order, and our president, Jeff, welcomed us and assembled guests to the meeting, Alicia delivered the opening thought based on the evening’s theme. Her thought, considered as it was by her own frequent travels, was essentially that ‘There’s no place like home”.
Mellodee Ng ably hosted as Toastmaster. She introduced our evening’s Timer/Vote Counter, Roxanna; our Grammarian, Jeff; Ah Counter, Farzad, and Leadership Manual Evaluator, Karolina.
Then Mel introduced our evening’s first Prepared Speech speaker, Rich Lombardi. Rich delivered his first toastmasters speech, his Ice Breaker, lovingly titled, “My Wife’s Husband”. In the early going his speech was a “paean” to his wife of many years then an expression of love of country and an admonition to pursue personal freedom without dependence on federal help.
Roxanna bravely volunteered to be our second speaker, diving into a briefly prepared reply to our club members’ offered ‘5 W’s’- the “who, what, why, where and when” of speaking. The who: Donald Trump, the when, the 1950’s, the why: mom taking him to the hairdresser’s. Roxanna boldly launched into her own polemic against “The Don”, delivering a rousing polemic.
Mel then introduced Paula to host the impromptu speaking portion of the evening, Table Topics. Each week a different member of our group is invited to fulfill this role, and Paula, in her first foray into the task , fulfilled it with wit and forethought. She brought in her laptop and used the group’s projector to present slides of beautiful places around the globe. Then she called Contrarians and willing guests to ‘project’ themselves into the slide’s locations and tell all assembled what they’d do there, how they’d spend time, etc. A Rorschach test (if you will) that gave us all a chance to experience the speaker and the place
Mel then handed the podium to me as General Evaluator to introduce our Evaluators for the evening’s prepared speakers. Nayan evaluated Rich’s speech and Max evaluated Roxanna’s.
Awards were presented for best prepared speaker, best table topics speaker and best Evaluator by Mel.
In our brief business segment of the evening, Jeff introduced Darlene and Raymond McCullough, Officials from Division 4, Area G and F respectively, who invited us to participate in the upcoming Fall Speech Contest that will be held at Mesa Verde United Methodist Church in Costa Mesa on September 18th, 2015 between 2 and 5pm. In advance, we and the other participating clubs will send the winner of our Tall Tales speaking contest to this event.
We’d love to share our speaking experiences with you and invite you to become like ourselves, members. Hope to see you on Wednesdays at 6:30pm !
July 22nd, 2015
Theme: Reality Shows
Reality Shows was the theme for this evening’s meeting. Max gave the opening thought and he shared a story of when he was encouraged by a family member to watch Survivor ( it was also one of my personal favorites). After a few seasons, the constant drama lost its appeal on him and he stopped watching the show. Reality shows are not for everyone, myself included.
Max was also our toastmaster for the evening and introduced the speakers and their evaluators.There were several speeches scheduled for this evening. Farzad was our first speaker, and he gave his icebreaker speech. He shared the different methods he used to improve his English, (walking up to complete strangers and starting a conversation)) and how he overcame his fears of public speaking. The reason he joined Toastmasters, like all of us who join, was to improve his public speaking skills.
The next speech was given by Alex. The title of his speech was “Why your password sucks.” His speech was on password security, and how easily and quickly, hackers can access your password(s).He shared the 25 most common passwords, such as 123456, monkey1, abc123, letmin. As it turned out, of our members was guilty of using one of the common passwords. I know I will be paying closer attention to my password setup!
Our last speaker of the evening was Roxanna. The title of her speech was “Expectation versus Agreement.” She is a life coach and explained the difference between expectations and an agreement. For instance, someone who doesn’t communicate their expectations, puts the responsibility on that person. When you make an agreement, they like to keep and honor that agreement.
After the speaking portion, Mellodee, was the table topics master. Several members got to participate in a game of “Bachelor” and we enjoyed how contestants came up with reasons why they should be picked. In the end, the bachelor decided not to go with anyone, and chose “self love.”
At the end of our meeting, we tallied the votes for three categories: Best Speaker, Best Evaluator, and Best Table Topics. Roxanna won best speaker, Alicia won best evaluator, and Nick won best table topics.
We meet every week on Wednesday evenings at 6:30. If you are interested in joining a Toastmasters club, you are more than welcome to join us a guest.
July 15th, 2015
Theme: The Death Penalty
The death penalty meeting was kicked-off by no other than our resident prison insider, Roxana.
She told a great story about the strategic thinking of those inside death row and how it defies conventional wisdom
The very first time in his short TM career, Joe was tasked with Toastmaster duties for the evening.
As he introduced the speakers, he gave the members a brief description of each prior to being introduced. A nice touch. Great speeches by both Melodee and Jeff.
Jeff made the room feel like we all learned something. (I don't recall much)
Melodee's speech was interesting as she talked about volunteering and being exposed to sexism.
Table Topics Master Alex conducted a stellar effort in this segment. The Death Penalty is almost always a politically charged and polarizing topic.
Even after being challenged by Rich, Alex held his position and continued on with facts. Alicia took home the coveted Table Topics prize with her impromptu 'fluffy' story.
Meeting wrapped up with Melodee winning Best Speaker and Angela winning for best evaluator
July 8th, 2015
Theme: Secrets and Lies
At the Contrarians, you quickly grow appreciation for the effort our members give towards our meetings. Angela’s research on the five most common told secrets and lies was not only informative but engaging and funny. I uproariously laughed when she told us that the most common lie is “I don’t lies.” Why? Because I am definitely one of those people! Shhh, don’t tell anyone!
Our Toastmaster Alicia ran a well-organized and smooth meeting. She remembered to tell our guests that our meetings are separated into three segments (prepared speeches, impromptu speeches, evaluations) and gave short but sweet introductions for our prepared speakers.
Ray, our first speaker, gave an impromptu speech titled “What I think about thinking.” How do you know that you know something? Well... Ray came to the conclusion that actually, we can never know! We can never be 100% certain about anything! Therefore, it behooves us to ask questions, explore, and experiment.
Our second speaker, Nayan, used his storytelling skills to discuss “Social Norms and Arranged Marriage.” An interesting topic, one that got my ears piqued, he requested that we all look into our lives for the moments in which we rely on social norms. For his efforts, he won best speaker. Fantastic, Nayan!
Our last prepared speaker, Karolina, shared a deep, personal story involving a friend of hers who asked for her support during a dark period. She wanted to make clear that we have a “Right to Be Unhappy.” We have a choice. We don’t have to follow the pervasive advice “Be happy.” She ended her speech by gracefully reciting W.H. Auden’s poem “Funeral Blues.”
After the prepared speeches segment, Jeremiah re-energized our members with a hilarious reminder that never do we need to tell truth, especially during Table Topics. However, with questions on topics like infidelity, Edward Snowden, murder, and farting, members chose to answer honestly. Or...did they? We’ll never know, will we?
Our evaluators, Joe, Sean, and Wayne, respectively, gave intriguing and balanced evaluations of our speakers. I always enjoy hearing evaluations; they not only help improve my skills as an evaluator but as a speaker.
Finally, our Toastmaster Alicia handed out the ribbons to best speaker, best table topics, and best evaluator.
If you’re on the fence about coming as a guest, don’t hesitate! Fun times await you!
June 24th, 2015
Tonight our current officers’ term ended and we thanked our outgoing president Ramesh for his wonderful job and leadership he has given to our club over the past 6 months. He received a big hug and a tie around his neck from many of us. We just like to improvise and have fun.
Tonight 4 guests visited our club and followed our meeting.
We had two prepared speeches, one of which was Paula’s Icebreaker. She gave a powerful and engaging speech about who she is. She emphasized how much she feels supported by our club, so that she can grow her confidence and evolve as a person and as a speaker.
Sara was our second speaker. In “What animal area you?” she pointed out the characteristics of zoo animals as a comparison to us people in our work environment, and what we need to be balanced. Also, what a leader needs to know in order to work well with all the different “animals” and their traits. Her speech was entertaining and interesting, and her props were the cherry on the cake. Some of our members wore Sara’s animal hats all through the meeting.
Joe did a great job leading his Table Topics segment about socialism, and we heard some interesting impromptu answers. If you don’t know anything about a topic it’s a great challenge to smoothly switch to a different topic.
Mellodee and Fernando were our speech evaluators today, both delivered valuable feedback for our main speakers.
At the end of our meeting we welcomed a new member into the club.
Our president Ramesh then called all outgoing officers to the podium to give a short speech about their work during the last term, making way to the new officers and wishing them well.
After acknowledging our guests we ended the meeting at 8:15 PM.
See you all next time!
June 17th, 2015
Pornography? Really? We need to be really bold to speak about this subject. And you were not disappointed. Because at The Contrarians, no topic is taboo. Our Opening Thought Speaker, took us into a trip of where Pornography was originated, the revenue of 3 billion annually online and as a whole 13-14 billion annually and what happens after your 1st exposure to it. Also, how it has affected men and women in many ways, including of course, their relationships.
We also had two inductions into our club...Congratulations Jurgen and Sasha, welcome to our Club!!
Our first speaker of the night was Fernando. It was great speech were he used metaphors in order for us to understand how can we feel based on our surroundings. He even delivered part of his speech in Spanish, and it seems that only Sara understood that part. But the best part was the word he invented... "metamorphicly speaking"
Then, we had our 2nd Speaker Rick, that not only he said he was delivering his last speech with us, he talked about the 3 things he has learn by doing Toast Masters.
Back to our Table Topics, Mellodee, our Table Topic Masters, touched again on our Theme of the night...And what a way to get us all out of our comfort zone with questions like... (I better not) you should have been there!! The word of the day was "flaccid" that might give you an idea.
Our evaluators Niemn and Bob did a great job evaluating our speakers. They showed their perspective and provided feedback on what our speakers did great, what they needed to work on, and what other things were a highlight in their speech.
In the final segment, we got the time report by Ray, the ah counter report by Joe and the grammar report by Jeremiah.
Finally, we did a drum roll to choose our best speaker, best table topic speaker and best evaluator and given a ribbon by our President and Toastmaster of the night Sean...Rick, Joe and Niemn respectively. Then he welcome our new guests...it is always great to see new guest visiting us.
So what are you waiting for to visit us? See you next time...Sara