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Tips for Parents of Students Who Are Experiencing Crisis

1. Keep your child informed and updated, keeping in mind the developmental and cognitive level of the child. Children need to feel involved and as in control as much as possible.

2. Watch for signs of distress. Loss of appetite, aggression, acting out, being withdrawn, sleeping disorders, and other behavior changes can indicate problems.

3. Send your child to school if possible. The stability and routine of a familiar situation will help young people feel more secure.

4. Remember that everyone reacts to stress and/or grief in different ways. There is no one-way to act in a crisis situation.

5. Allow children the opportunity to express feelings. It is important to validate these 

6. A good diet and plenty of exercise are important for children who are under stress. Encourage your child to eat well and get plenty of exercise.

7. Be honest about your own concerns, but stress your and your child’s ability to cope with the situation.

8. Respect a child’s need to grieve.

9. Provide somewhere private and quiet for your child to go.

10. Be available and listen to your child.

11. Remember to take care yourself.

12. Obtain outside help if necessary.

-MIssouri School Counselors Association