2010 is a sensational time to reflect on your own dying and death.

        There's currently so much information available on pre-dying,  dying,  death and  
                       even life after death that the naturalness of dying is ours to embrace!

 

Prevent yourself arriving at your dying unprepared

Whether you’re 18, 48. 68 or 98;  in full health;  suffering an illness;  or actually facing your own death  –  explore your own dying and gift yourself opportunity to  check out  your own beliefs, thoughts, feelings, ideas, fears and experiences around dying and death.

You may be surprised at how fabulously entertaining this exploring can be and you may be moved by how deeply meaningful it is!

 
What can you gain by doing this now?

• Get familiar with the naturalness of dying and death
• Normalise the reality of your own inevitable death
• Integrate your dying as part of your living
• Embrace your own dying with reduced fear 
• Gain a sense of preparedness
• Develop ability to be alongside others in their dying 
• Get crazy passionate about living!  
  
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Who         - yourself, couples, families, groups
Sessions   - minimum of two hours or 6 hour workshops
Where       - your venue of choice or mine                                                                                

Cost          - on request

                                                                                                                                         

Follow up with planning your own Funeral or Wake  

Why? - you know yourself  best!

A will and a funeral plan are both incredibly helpful documents for those left behind when your inevitable death arrives with or without warning!                             (Make sure you have a legal will!)
Planning your funeral is major opportunity to pause and reflect on your life lived to date then to express this fresh perspective in your own interpretation of what life means or has meant  for you.

 

• Design your funeral accordingly,  it will after all be the Party you won't attend!
• Or, plan your own wake, invite friends over, share yourself and have that final party where you will attend!                                                                                                                                                            
  
• what will be the benefits 
  

• Eliminate the angst, confusion and sometimes chaos that can befall those left behind who need to plan a funeral for a loved one
• Avoid an inappropriate funeral 
• Design and Create that ceremony party for those you will leave !  
• Leave tasks for those living who will enjoy and need inclusion.           
  
• Create an "emotional will" leaving your special mementos to special people
• Still alive in 10, 20, 40 years? Updates available!

 

Who              -  yourself, couples, families, friends
Sessions         -  minimum of two hours. 
Where             -  your venue of choice or mine                            Cost               -  on request 

                                

Contact - pujari@paradise.net.nz

essential read for everyone exploring legal and emotional issues around funerals

"Living Legacies - A family funeral handbook for an  evergreen world" Lynda Hannah

other relevant reading

Advice on Dying                                                 Dali Lama  (And Living a Better LIfe)
Easy Death                                                             Adi Da Samraj
Life after Death                                                   Deepak Chopra    (the book of answers)
Home With God                                                  Neale Donald Walsh
A Swan in Heaven                                             Teri Daniel     (conversations between two worlds)     Conscious Dying                                                Stephen Levine                                                                        
Living  Our Dying                                              Joseph Sharp

 I offer "Grief Support"  for those living the loss of a loved one through death and am in process of adding to this site a detailed description of "grief support".

 I also offer a "Companion to the dying" service. This is being alongside the dying, relieving family members in this role and I am competent in facilitating conversations with the dying person on their inevitable death and will do so on request.

                                                                                                                                         

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