Awareness
It is a sad fact of life that acts of
violence are more prevalent in today's society. Becoming a student in a reality
based self-defence system like Urban Krav Maga can teach you the physical and
psychological skills for dealing with aggressive and violent confrontations,
however avoidance is the best approach. The consequences of a physical attack
can be very serious, even if you are the victor, both psychologically and
legally.
The key to preventing yourself becoming a
potential victim is alertness. In self-protection circles we often use
Alertness Colour Codes to classify an individuals awareness of danger:
Code White
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Unaware of any potential threats and
unprepared for trouble
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This is exactly what most potential
attackers are looking for
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You will not see the attack coming
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Your reaction time will be greatly
increased
Code white is not desirable, ever. Some people
are habitually complacent, others are in code white because they are
pre-occupied with other things or perhaps have their alertness reduced by
excessive consumption of alcohol. Whatever the reason this is not the state of
alertness to be in to ensure your safety.
Code Yellow
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Alert for
threats
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Looking
around and conscious of dark shadows, suspicious behaviour
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You will not
be taken by surprise
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You will
react more quickly to any attack
In
self-protection terms this is a good state to be in. Your alertness will by
itself mark you out as a hard target. Most assailants will pass you over for an
easier mark. In addition to alertness the way you dress and carry yourself will
also send out signals that can deter an assailant with pre-meditated violence on
their mind. Dressing smartly in clean clothes also conveys confidence, dark
colours are also associated with power in our culture. When walking in the
street maintain a good posture and walk purposefully. Keep you shoulders back
and look up, do not look down at the ground and shuffle - don't live in code
white.
A good tip for
maintaining code yellow alertness without becoming paranoid about the whole
thing is to run an internal commentary just as when you are driving a car for
example... "I'm just coming to the bottom of my road about to take a left, I see
a group of slightly suspicious youths ahead of me .. maybe nothing to worry
about but I'll cross over the road just in case. As I come to the corner I take
a wider path rather than turning a tight circle so that I can see if there is
anyone around the corner standing close to the wall ....."
Remember even
though violence is becoming more commonplace we do not want to become paranoid
and start to see threats everywhere and behave like extreme survivalists. There
are many more good people than bad in this world, and with sensible precautions
we can reduce our chances of having to physically protect ourselves. Ensuring
that we are in code yellow whenever we go out is a good place to be.
Code Orange
We are equipped
by evolution to recognise potential threats to our safety. Fear is our alarm
system, it will release a dump of adrenaline into your system when a threat is
perceived by your sub-conscious. Listen to the warning. Take appropriate action
if you can to avoid the threat, turn down another road where there are more
people, into a shop or mall. Be prepared to turn tail and run if you have to. If
you cannot for any reason run (e.g. you feel you will not be able to outrun your
attacker) then do not deny the threat. Be prepared to talk your way out of trouble
assertively or to act to defend your self should the situation warrant it. You
will have more confidence in you ability to do this with some training such as
we provide at Urban Maga.
Code Red
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Violence is
about happen
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No doubt
about it
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You are ready
for it
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You are
looking for the first hint of an attack or of crossing the line that you
have set as your defence threshold
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You will act
to defend yourself the way you have been trained to when the trigger occurs
It is a very
stressful state to be in for any length of time, adrenaline will be coursing
through your veins in huge quantities. You will need it, through your training
you will not freeze under its influence but harness it to your benefit. You will
disable your attacker enough to allow you to escape safely. There are signs that
give a way an imminent attack, sometimes they are very obvious in the case of
un-premeditated or "hot attacks" but not so obvious when the attacker is more
"cold" and has a pre-meditated routine.
Let us look at
"hot attacks" first - hot because anger is involved usually arising from a
confrontation. The tell tale signs of imminent attack from an aggressor are:
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Intense
continual staring
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Lowered brow
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Use of
aggressive language especially the barking of aggressive swear words
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Vigorous
pecking of the head to emphasize the monosyllabic threats
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Splaying of
the arms as though the aggressor is carrying an imaginary bucket of water in
each hand
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An inability
to keep still, moving from side to side, pointing and twitching - tell tale
signs of adrenaline dump
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The face
becomes pale as the blood is diverted to the muscles
When faced with
this situation it is important to accept what is happening, try to physically
and psychologically put up a "fence". Speak in commands not requests. Keep the
aggressor at distance. The techniques for achieving this are too detailed to go
into here but will be covered in our lessons. If the attacker does not calm down
but continues to move towards you, then you MUST act to physically defend
yourself if escape is not an option, make plenty of noise and attract attention
to yourself. Again make sure you have had the training to enable you to do this
effectively.
"Cold attacks"
involve deception on the part of the assailant. They are avoided by not putting
too much trust in
strangers. Again your natural alarm system will tell you something is wrong. You
will feel uneasy, as though you are being talked into something you do not want
to do. Listen to these warnings. Tell the potential aggressor assertively to
back off! If he keeps coming forward despite this there should be no doubt in
your mind that the intentions are not good. If escape is really not possible,
make plenty of noise and be prepared to protect yourself physically.
There is much more to be said about the soft
skills involved in self protection but the above gives you an idea of some of
the skills aside from the physical ones we will teach you that help to keep you
safe.