In 2002 the United Parents Group sponsored a program for parents on
"Keeping Kids Safe on the Internet." It was presented in cooperation
with the Abington and Cheltenham Police Departments. The advice listed
below is adapted from that program and from publications from the
National Center for Missing & Exploited Children. In 2003 UPG
distributed a bookmark to every student in the Cheltenham School
District which included the reminders for children on Internet
safety. At the same time, UPG offered advice for parents on Internet
safety for grades K-8 by sending a flyer to each household and for high
school parents by publishing article on the topic in the CHS
newsletter, Communications. Both the reminders for children and the advice for parents are presented below. Note that the bookmark and the flyer urge parents
and children to communicate with one another about going online and
about setting up the family's rules for going online.
Parents should post these Internet safety rules for their children near the computer:
- Do not give out your name, address, or phone number
- Do not give out your parents' work address or phone number
- Do not give out the name or location of your school
- Do not send out your picture or a family member's picture or
agree to receive a picture of anyone without first checking with one of
your parents
- Do not agree to get together with someone you have "met" online without taking along your mother or father
- If you receive a message that makes you feel uncomfortable, tell your parents right away
- Talk with your parents to set up your family's rules for going
online: the time of day that you can be online, how long you can be
online, and where you can "visit" online
Parents should follow this advice for the household:
- Set up guidelines about what your child can or cannot do online
- Encourage your child to come to you if he or she encounters a problem online
- Never respond to messages that are obscene or threatening
- Set an example to your child by being cautious about entering
information about yourself at a Website, especially an address,
telephone number, or photograph
- Know that if you E-mail a newsgroup, forum, or bulletin board, your E-mail address becomes available to thousands of people
- Never respond to unsolicited E-mail ("spam") even to request
removal from the list. Although not a safety issue, responding to spam
is more likely to increase the amount of junk E-mail you receive. Most
spammers use the removal messages to confirm that an Email address is
valid, making it more attractive to those to whom they sell their
lists.
- Look into blocking and filtering programs, but don't depend on them to protect your child from all dangers
- If you encounter what you consider a serious threat online, contact the Cheltenham Police Department
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