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Newsletter To M.E. or not to M.E.
July 2009

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ENERGY HEALING BOARD

For those who would like energy healing, all it takes is a post request with a picture of the person for whom you would like healing.  If there are any other healer's out there who would like to donate their time, all you need to do it post your healing background! 

HEALER INTRODUCTIONS

SHELL:  Hi All .  I learned Spiritual Healing through my spiritualist church, where I am now registered with The Scottish Association of Spiritual Healers, I'd be more than happy to send anyone absent healing, or add you to My churches Healing Book on a Thursday when I attend church.

TERI:  I was so blessed. The year I was 15 a spiritual healer came into my life and began mentoring me. So I've been practicing energy healing in one form or another for over 40 years........ OMG! .

In 1994 I discovered Reiki. I attained my first and second degree quickly but got sidetracked home schooling kids until recently. I am currently working on my third degree and hope to be a Reiki Master by July.

NIC: I am a Reiki master and crystal healer I use a crystal grid charged with reiki energy which I would place a photo of yourself or whoever you would want the reiki sent to. I also do distant reiki healing on times to be set which we would both be sitting quiet at the same time. I love doing this kind of work and I would be more than happy to send anyone healing .

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Energy and Healing

What Is Energy and How Can It Heal?
Guest article by Carol Powell Smith

We’ve heard so much lately about Healing and different kinds of Energy work. Just what is Energy and how can it heal?

Webster’s Dictionary describes Energy as “a vigorous exertion of power”; okay, but how does it work?

How Energy Works

If we go to Quantum Physics, we find that the concept of Energy gets to be quite complicated. Einstein showed us that E=MC2 , Energy equals Mass times the speed of Light squared. This tells us that Mass and Energy are interchangeable. And that both space and time are not absolute. The most important consequence of this is that Mass is nothing but a form of Energy. So, everything is a form of Energy, objects at rest have stored Energy. Trees, Rocks, Dogs, Water and People are all made up of Energy, in one form or another.

This means that Energy can exist as either solid matter or as non-solid matter, such as a beam of light. Radio waves, microwaves and X-rays are all forms of pure non-solid Energy.

Where Does Energy Come From?

Energy is all around us, everywhere in all different wavelengths and frequencies. From Energies with very short wavelengths like Cosmic Radiation and X-rays to very long wave lengths such as Radio waves and Infra Red waves.

Everyday our bodies are being hit with these Energies from many different sources. We don’t see it but we know it is there.

When we speak, our voice saying words has released sound waves of Energy causing ripples in the air around us. When we think, our brains release wavelengths of Energy.

Can Energy Be Measured?

To the Scientific community, Energy is something measurable with specific instruments to detect for example, heat, light, or cosmic radiation. The Energy used in Healing is equally real, with the measuring device being that exquisitely sensitive one, the human body. Our bodies are receiving stations for Energy and also transmitters of Energy.
About Our Multi-Body System

We are made up of a multi-body system, not just the physical body. We have an Etheric Body, an Emotional Body, a Mental Body and an Astral Body. Things don’t just affect us physically; we are affected on all levels. When we think thoughts, these non-solid forms of Energy go out into our multi system body and greatly affect us.

Healing Balances Energy

We all have storage centers in our bodies that store Energy and Energy patterns. They are called Chakras. We can have Energy Patterns stored from events that happened yesterday as well as from many years ago. Some of these patterns will be happy memories and some of them will be unpleasant and painful memories of something that happened to us. Sometimes we stash them away deep into some recess in our Chakras and in our Auras (the Energy field around us), and try to forget about them, but they don’t really go away. Dis-ease is a manifestation of unbalanced Energy. Healing, then is a way of balancing Energy.

Negative Forms of Energy

Throughout our lives we pick up negative forms of Energy, such as Fear, Doubt, Anger, Judgment, Criticism, Blame and others. Any techniques we find that enable us to let go of these patterns will help to move us toward peace and happiness.

There are many ways to balance your Energy. One approach is A: to become the most complete and loving being you can be. The loving Energy will naturally dissolve the parts of you that are keeping you unbalanced.

Another way of balancing your Energy is through B: 1.Recognition—recognizing the problem. 2. Surrender and Release—putting trust in the highest power, letting go of trying to control how your life will manifest. It is releasing how we think things should be, and knowing that he Divine Source will take control.

If you combine both paths of A: Love and B: the path of Release, you will have the fastest way possible to a balanced, healed state of being.

When a trained energy worker works with you to help balance your Energy, for many, the process of Healing is accelerated.

 

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THE BAR

We used to have a singles bar.  It was a great place for our single members to go to post about those things that single people with M.E. have in common.  I say "used to have".  The married invaded!  Yep, folks, we had to change the name to "The BAR" and take down the singles signs.  You see we were having so much fun, the married just couldn't stay away.  So, single, married, man, woman or "other", you're all invited to join us!  Click here.......

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ARTICLE OF THE MONTH

Stepping In To The ‘Minefield’ Of Finding The Right Treatment For Chronic Fatigue Syndrome

I spoke to one of our regular readers two weeks ago, who also happens to be a CFS/ME sufferer. Greg said to me: ‘I look forward to the potential treatments article for CFS/ME, which I hope will not be too much of a minefield, as none of them come without a great deal of controversy.’

‘Minefield’ is a bit of an understatement, dear Greg. As difficult as it is to find answers regarding the cause of CFS/ME it’s doubly hard to find an all encompassing treatment for it. Whilst doing research for this particular article I kept on thinking: I thank my lucky stars I’m not suffering from CFS/ME. It must be so discouraging not to know exactly what causes it and then to also face the challenge of trying to find a treatment that closely fits your individual symptoms and diagnosis.

Hat full of tricks

So what are the treatment options for someone suffering from CFS/ME? Part of the answer probably lies with the doctor that gave the diagnosis or whether a medical diagnosis has been made at all. (Most sufferers still struggle to get their condition recognized by their GP and travel from doctor to doctor in an effort to get a proper diagnosis.)

If you are lucky enough to get a sympathetic doctor and a positive diagnosis, you can start with treatment. But where do you begin? CFS/ME is after all a multi-level illness...

Below are three approaches to treating CFS/ME. Knowing that CFS/ME is a multi-level illness and knowing that CFS/ME comes in different degrees with clusters of symptoms the best would be to get a multi-level treatment programmed that incorporates aspects of each of the following, tailored to your needs and symptoms.

CFS/ME and Hypnotherapy / NLP/ Body-Mind approaches to healing CFS/ME

There is an array of Mind-Body therapies available that are tailored to treat CFS/ME. Just to mention a few such as Reverse Therapy, Mickel Therapy, The Perrin Technique, Emotional Freedom Technique, Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), Acupuncture and the Bowen Technique. Whilst these therapies focus on the mind and it’s relationship with the body it seems to do very little for physiological symptoms because it almost assumes that the mind is manifesting the physical symptoms of CFS/ME. The Lightning Process, for instance is an NLP technique that involves a process for calming unhelpful mental patterns and entering a more resourceful ‘healing state’. This often gets very good results, however, some people improve significantly and then relapse because it does not necessarily treat the physiological symptoms. On the other hand, these treatments are excellent as motivational tools and should possibly be factored in, in the final stages of recovery.

CFS/ME and Toxic cleansing

Our environment and lifestyle expose us to toxins, from antibiotics to mercury poisoning to electrical pollution. Many CFS/ ME therapies focus strongly on detoxifying the body. The belief behind these therapies is that a toxic overload lies at the heart of CFS/ME which has a knock-on effect on all levels of health. Once the body is cleansed of toxins it can cope with it’s environment in full capacity again. Toxic cleansing will involve a bowel/colon cleanse, the draining of the lymph system, chelation therapy and will perhaps rely on supplements supporting and strengthening the immune system such as wormwood – which removes harmful bacteria, parasites and fungus from the gastrointestinal tract. This is possibly a good place to start when your overriding symptoms stem from gastrointestinal problems as well as a lack of energy.

CFS/ME and the Nutritional approach

Some therapies focus strongly on nutrition as the road to recovery for CFS/ME sufferers and this often coincides with a detoxifying programme. In general, nutritional therapy focuses on the nutrients that provide the most immune support for a person with CFS/ME. Whilst this is a very relevant and beneficial therapy, since many CFS/ME sufferers have severe digestive problems, it is not always an accurate science. It takes a lot of commitment from sufferers that often don’t have the energy to eat properly in the first instance, let alone focus on a dietary process of elimination. However, I believe that nutrition plays a key role in the recovery of any disease.

CFS/ME sufferers have reduced energy levels, and many experience poor memory, poor concentration, and assorted gastrointestinal problems that may indicate Vitamin B-12 deficiency. Folic acid and pantothenic acid are also related to fatigue, and increasing intake of these B vitamins could be beneficial for some people with CFS. Omega-3 deficiency is also associated with fatigue, poor memory and poor circulation, heart problems, and depression, so it is easy to see why these nutrients are important for CFS sufferers.
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The Gold Club

The Gold Club is our new message board for those members who have posted over 250 times.  We're looking forward to having many members!
 

NEW MEMBERS IN JUNE

WELCOME!

Kenny,
I am 42 I am physically disabled in a wheelchair needing care, through having osteoarthritis & post-traumatic fibromyalgia syndrome through out my body, stroke related condition, daily seizures, spondylitis of upper & lower spine, 2 damage vertebra centre & lower, asthmatic, IBS and other conditions, too many to list!

I used to help run 5 disabled organisations up till 2002, when I moved from Morecambe to Oldham (UK) where I presently live, since then not done much through bad of health, I have been in the wheelchair needing care for 4 years now.

I run some disabled support, friendship & promotional groups here on Yuku & sister groups on Aimoo, keeps me busy & I enjoy meet other people.

I helped to set up 2 Animal Rescues in Oldham, as I love animals, and interested in Animal Welfare!

I am a caring considerate guy who likes to help people & animals out, so now can only do it through the internet.
That's me folk's!

Emma (aka InstantkiwiNZ)

Hi from AK, NZ (Auckland, New Zealand for those upover).

I'm a semi retired RN who still has had no specific diagnosis (since 1973 have been seeking an answer) ... I have most of the symptoms of ME and fibro but there is no one who is willing to label this. It's a help yourself health system here and one has to be very assertive to get any tests done and I'm quite worn out from it all. But life goes on and my self help seems to work most of the time.

Anyways, looking forward to meeting you and finding more alternatives and suggestions here ... 'Live long and Prosper' (I'm also a trekkie lol), and run a couple of Yuku groups ... InstantkiwiNZ for those interested in blogging and Ulead Unleashed for those interested in making their own animations. I spend a lot of time on the computer and apart from my social time outside .. I play pool and bowls, not very well, and it gets me out of the house lol I have 2 daughters and 2 grandchildren aged 2yrs, and 5 months and these also take up a lot of my time.

Kaaran

SassySara
My name is Sara and I am married
We have 2 sons.
I have had fibro for about 12 years now.
Along with a bunch of other things that go along with having fibro
I live in Illinois central time. Just to let you know the time difference
 

Greenlight
Hi, my name is Denise and I am from Grayson, Kentucky. I am happily married to my lovely husband but was not blessed with children. I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia in 2004 and have alot of the fun stuff that goes along with it - CFS, IBS, RLS...and a few other things on top of that. But I must be blessed because things could be much worse. I try to spend as much time outdoors as possible...love going to parks and just getting out into the country and sitting on grandma's porch listening to the birds and squirrels on the hillsides. I'm not sure what else to say at this point, but I'm sure I will remember something important or interesting at some point to add. Oh, yes, I am kind of shy and quiet until I get comfortable with people so please bear with me. Thank you.

I'll try to post a photo on my profile as soon as I get that stuff figured out. Thanks again!


LIZZIE

Sassybaby
hello there, My name is Beth and I hail from the hot and muggy state of Kentucky. lol. I love to joke around and have a good time. My body has been the owner of fibro for about 6 yrs now among the other wonderful things that go along with it. lol. oh I guess I should mention that I am 46 yrs young.. never old, I refuse to grow old. cause when I do.. I'm in serious trouble. lol.

Beachbay
Hey everyone, I'm Beachbay. I live in Myrtle Beach & love it, Have 2 daughters & 4 grands, A wonderful hubby & many animals, I've had fibro for a long time, But just got the diagnosis. 1 yr ago, I live in so much pain, Some days I can't get out of bed for the pain, About most everything I use to love doing I can't do anymore, I feel like my life has been taken so soon from me, But I over do it a lot & pay for it, Just can't stop .If I do I'll give up. Thanks again, BB-Kate

Kaaran
Hi. My name is Kaaran. I live in South Australia with my husband, Arthur, my 16 yr old daughter, Christine and her two friends, Jarrad and Marc. (Long story!!!) I have a daughter, Susan (22) and a son, Shane (20) back in Brisbane. We moved here in December last year because I was stressed out from work and felt like a sea-change. We live 3 houses away from the ocean. I had pain and tiredness even though I was not working, and the doc told me he thinks I have Fibromyalgia. I didn't believe him.

Christine hated it here. She was suffering badly with anxiety and depression, so in March I took her back to live with the older two kids. That was when my illness smacked me hard, like a demolition ball! On the plane the pain started. It got worse and worse. I went to visit two friends who both have Fibromyalgia. Through talking to them I realised I do indeed have FM. I feel it was exacerbated by stress and depression. Having an empty nest was so difficult, as I had the kids young. I am not yet 40... and love children so much... Too young to have an empty nest!!! Christine was equally unhappy in Brisbane, so one day she, Jarrad and Marc got into Jarrad's car and ended up here. That was a couple of weeks ago. Now I have new stresses LoL!

I am talking too much... I will conclude...

My best friend is my elderly dog, Sammy. He is about 16. I will be devastated when his time is up, even though I know he can't live forever.

I don't know how often I will be able to post. I am a member of too many places, and now I hardly ever get time to Farm
(in Facebook)
 

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WELCOME BACK!

MARIA

Phil's Angel
Hi Every1,
I'm Yvonne and I live in Reading with my husband Phil and my daughter Lizzie (Elizabeth)

Phil & I married last July and it was a fantastic day
I was diagnosed with Fibromyalgia about 4 1/2 years ago I also suffer from Degenerative Discs & Faucets, Osteochrondritis, Hypoglycaemia & Migraines
although the migraines have been alot better
My daughter Lizzie has the same conditions as me & my husband Phil is in a wheelchair thanks to
Friedreich's Ataxia.

I have a son called Paul who lives in Derby with his fiancé & I have a daughter called Vonnie (Yvonne)
& I also have a grandson called Jordan whose nearly 4.

angelpam
Hi to you all. Well think many of you will know who I am but for anyone who doesn't .....here goes.
I am 49 (just lol), mother of five, nanna to two. Been married to Phil for 14 and a half months and glad to tell you we are still very much in love and very happy together.

I had to give up work last year in September because of depression and in November after I had a nervous breakdown. A Change of meds seem to be helping me to get back on my feet and am hoping to be back in work by the end of the year. I finally got confirmation in December (after waiting about 10yrs) that I have fibromyalgia. At least now I know what I am dealing with.

It feels so good to be back in the group. I have missed you all.
 

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INTRODUCTIONS for Oldes

For those of you who haven't gotten the word yet, the introductions that you posted when you first joined us at Yuku were lost.  We're trying to recreate the introduction board.  Please click here to add your introduction if you haven't already. 

Nic
hi all my name is nic I'm 39 and I live in Cumbria with my fiancé Steve and my dog pixie.
I have had M.E for 22years now I also have IBS, PCOS, degeneration of the spine, arthritis, 2 prolapsed discs and fibro.
the illness led me to reach out further into the spiritual world which took me and still taking me on my journey with reiki and crystals.
I love anything to do with the spiritual world angels, fairies and nature itself.
I cant think of anything else to say as I'm not good about talking about myself

Dani
I'm Dani, had ME for 22 years, 16 of which severely affected.

I'm married and have one son of 6 with another on the way due in November this year.

It took me 20 years to get a diagnosis which I finally got 2 years ago, at which time I was assessed as being at around 10-15% of normal this is about the level I stay at the moment. The only suggestions from the ME service was pacing - 20 minutes activity and 30 minutes total rest - this obviously isn't possible with children so I was discharged from them as there was nothing they could do to help. I receive no help whatsoever from social services as our social services "do not support people with ME" (a direct quote from them to my health visitor!)

I enjoy this group as a very good group of supportive friends who are there for all the times, good or bad, and are a great source of information regarding ME medications treatments and coping strategies.

Jasminola
Hi, A little about me.....I've been officially diagnosed with CFS
and Fibro amongst other symptoms for 5 years, although
I've suffered for the last 15....a typical time span in which
to be officially diagnosed!

I am Reiki trained to level three and enjoy keeping up with
my Reiki share group meetings. ( Money prevents me from
advancing to Reiki Master level! )

I have diplomas in various holistic therapies.

My main interests now are Angels, crystals and dipping
into anything spiritual!

Sirshocking
Hi,

I am Steve Hocking AKA Sirshocking. I've had ME for 12 years, since 1997 when I had Chicken Pox, Glandular fever and Pneumonia. I feel much better now after many therapies but still not 100%.

I am A Tanker driver by day and have kept my job throughout he illness luckily and by night I run a business www.kontrolsports.co.uk  selling sports sunglasses and prescription sunglasses.

Steve

MaiaG
My name is Melanie but I seem to go by Maia online. I'm Scribblers daughter. I have Ehlers Danlos Syndrome, as Mom does.

I recently graduated with my Associate's in Criminal Justice Technology and am pursuing my Associate Private Investigators license so I can finish the training and become a PI.

Introductions are always so hard lol I'm just not sure what to say... Please feel free to ask if you have any questions :-)

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Trivia Hall of Fame

Top 5 players at the end of each month will be written into the hall of fame, forever!

June
9 players played during the month.

1. Teri (74 points, 8 wins)
2. daninicholls (59 points, 10 wins)
3. maia (40 points, 10 wins)
4. Kiwi (24 points, 0 wins)
5. drloveonwheels (23 points, 1 wins)
6. athaaba (8 points, 0 wins)
7. phoenix2001 (6 points, 1 wins)
8. lizziegirl82 (5 points, 0 wins)
9. jasminola (2 points, 0 wins)