
the Aaahh
Gharnapatee
(a
communal experiential approach to communication and
self-realization)
THE MABA
The
double edge realignment technique of:
cathartic
emotional releasing and/or enhancing,
(immediate access to our
subconscious)
For
many of us it is very important to highlight and underline emotionally,
many of our communications and interactions, when this is needed. It
can mirror our psychological stand. The
Maba practice helps us to access our Conditioned as well as our
Primal emotions ie. our unconscious and subconscious.
This
practice can help us reach mindful awareness, and for some
Self-realization, through these Primal emotions and feelings. mainly
by first using the extremes of emotional non-verbal engagement and
release.
These
nonverbal expressions serve as a discharge and social negotiations.
However, when such release has achieved its aim, it turns into artistic expressions, closeness and liberation within the Aaahh
community culture.This flexible culture serves us as "The
Constant" in all of our communications and interactions. These
are fluid and need moment-to-moment adjusting. Within the Aaahh
culture we can address instinctual chaotic fixations of Yes and No
when we communicate. This practice, by and large, needs to be
complemented by the "Hama" and "Imme" practices,
described below. In this way, we can find the right balance between
our emotions and intellect, between left and right brain.
In the
Aaahh framework, when we talk about communication and relationships,
we are not talking mainly about hard facts, such as how much money do
I have, or what obvious practical action to take about some issue. We
are talking here more about "perceived, imaginative" things
which we also call "psychological realities" or
"psychological facts". These "perceived facts" or
realities in communication, and our relationships, can play a role
more vital than material considerations. These perceptions have to do
more with our imagination and feelings, that is, the way we feel
about someone or something, about our spouse, children, parents,
ourselves etc.
To
establish a base for such delicate and 'soft' perceived facts or
realities, a community base is a must. The application of personal
and group unorthodox transformation tools, such as the three main practices, are required because within this transformational process,
it can take time for a habit based shift to happen.

A
key subconscious insight that occurs in a flash, usually cannot be
adequately expressed in words, and when we are able to do so, its
impact may easily vanish from consciousness, but it is not lost.
The
complexity and fragmentation of modern life is reflected in the
language we use in our communications.
In
the Aaahh, in addition to our verbal interactions, we learn to
articulate essentials in communication through nonverbal ways ie.
gestured communication such as, eye contact, facial expression, tone
of voice, and other instant improvised expressions. This takes place
when normal language is not adequate for our feelings and emotions to
be expressed or we stay too much in our head. Paying attention to our
nonverbal language is very important here.
Gestured
communication comes mostly from our subconscious and enriches our
emotional intelligence. Such a "primal language" does not
further emotional or intellectual fragmentation, which often results
from the tyranny of choice that verbal associations and the
complexity of language (and life) and the so- called 'acquisition of
knowledge' can bring. Adding
gestured language to our verbal language leads to personal and
Community cohesion. Having role models in the Aaahh context adds
emphasis to everything.
We
revert or synchronize our intellectual conclusions with the dominant
feelings of that very moment expressed in improvised manifestations.
This also helps us detect when there is a big gap or uncertainty
between what we say and what we feel or do.Thus maintaining the dance
and flow of balance. In these complex and uncertain times, such a
balance is hard to maintain by mere words and a fluctuating mind. It
needs to be supported by psychological micro-actions which are
cultivated with the help of practices, meditations and our group
culture.
Our
experiential background of this approach is vital for the rational
understanding of the Aaahh communication.
In
the Aaahh context, in any communications or interactions, we most
often include our very personal (individual) subjectivity, however
idiosyncratic, fractured or unbalanced it may be.
Through
voice tones, facial expressions, mime, talking gibberish and other
apparent spontaneous nonsensical or childlike actions that can fit
into the given psychological context, we act out how we feel at that
time. (If needed, we may use a maximum of only 3 understandable
words.) These can provide both release and direction especially when
we have prioritized our intentions. At times, we may be required to
act out a kind of "simulated madness". Often, only such a behavior can jolt us out of our personal, sometimes overpowering,
ego fixations and lead us to our primal tribal emotions and feelings.
This puts a stop to our going around in the "vicious
intellectual circles" of mind regurgitation, defined, to a large
extent, by the psychological model we have imposed on ourselves,
mainly through relying on the use of language in our communications.
As well, catharsis through friction and resistance, is for many of us
in the west, a part of our culture and personal make up. With the
help of appropriate personal and group tools, through such on the
spot idiosyncratic interactions, better bonding and meaning can be
achieved.The Maba practice helps this to happen without leaving
language memory marks.
We
give vent to these "small unnoticed details" by using
spontaneous, quirky nonverbal expressions to also negotiate
psychological baggage, and to "tune into" each other. In
this way we can create an on-the-spot nonverbal chemistry which will
lead to balance and enhanced interactions, as and when needed.
The
acknowledgment, and allowance into our midst, of a manageable level
of 'craziness/clowning' and/or such instant improvised expressions,
can be a very powerful liberating tool to restore both our emotional
and rational flow of balance. Such a nonverbal and contained
acting-out or childlike silliness (especially when sharing in front
of other members), can be remedial fun and a powerful tool in
conflict resolution. Here we allow ourselves to pull apart the
image/mask we have created and, so to speak"go naked" in
front of our friends. A great honesty is required to "let go"
and let our group spirit or community culture guide us. The Aaahh
culture is forged through the cultivation of imaginative, symbolic as
well as practical constants. If we allow these, and adopt them into
our life they will add meaning and enhance our communications.
When
there is within us a deep desire for personal and community harmony,
our individual strong fixations can eventually synchronize with that
desire. In this light, it doesn't matter if we, individually or
communally, get sometime "out of sync".
Here is a
further description of this practice:
The
Maba, as a restrained enactment, can exaggerate and release tension.
This can be the initial part of a overall practice enabling those in
conflict to be able to determine where they emotionally stand with
each other. This recognized Aaahh-acknowledged action can bring great
release to the individual and the community. It can make a great
difference to someone from a culture bent mainly on ironing-out
fundamental individual problems in our lives (and larger issues)
through intellectual conflict, or abstracting through talking and
projecting them "out there". Up to a point, talking is OK,
if it really helps to address the issue. If this is not the case, we
use the Maba technique.
After
this cathartic enactment, we can return to normal talking
communication and see how it feels. We may also go back and repeat
the Maba exercise until issues have been sorted out. Alternatively,
we can just enjoy being in the presence of each other and
experiencing good communication without our "mind clutter".
Being present without words.
IN
ADDITION, AND VERY IMPORTANTLY, AT A CERTAIN LEVEL IN THE MABA
PRACTICE, SOME OF US MAY BE ABLE TO ACCESS OUR PRIMAL (PRIMORDIAL and
not the conditioned) EMOTIONS AND FEELINGS, REACHING OUR TRIBAL CORE
- THE MARROW OF OUR BONES - AND BECOME ONE WITH EVERYTHING -
SELF-REALIZED IN THE "HERE AND NOW". THIS REQUIRES
"A LETTING GO AND A TUNING IN". OTHERS IN THE AAH MAY
REACH THIS LEVEL THROUGH PRACTICES AND MEDITATIONS OF MINDFULNESS AND
AWARENESS. HOWEVER, FOR MOST OF US, A COMBINATION OF THE TWO, A
BALANCE BETWEEN ENGAGED SENSORY EXPERIENCE AND SENSORY
NON-ATTACHMENT, WILL BRING THE BEST RESULTS. HERE THE HAMA AND IMME
PRACTICES (please see below) COME TO ASSIST US.
In the Aaahh
context, we speak about "self-realization". This is a state
in which an individual and the group (community) become fully
synchronized, and also function in such a way. This is an occurrence
that need not necessarily be talked about, but has become an implicit
fact.
Understanding and seeing our relationships, our
community and even our greater world, in its 'is-ness' or '
being-ness' without the need for words, helps us to balance our
individual perspectives and indeed can place all of our relationships
on a very different footing. A heartfelt language will then emerge.

THE HAMA
(focusing)
The
second principle practice which compliments the interactive Maba
practice (and brings into focus many other processes) is the Hama. It
revolves around a flexible non-religious "mantra" which can
be practiced in a variety of passive or active ways, such as in
sitting meditations, singing, dancing, chanting, and bringing rhythm
as a form of meditation into our activities. In the passive Hama
practices, we are able to divorce ourselves from our crude emotions
and become the observer of passing feelings and sensations. This
mantra, as a complete psychological unit, addresses and integrates
three aspects: the negative, the neutral and the positive aspects in
our psyche. The Hama synthesizes all our practices and meditations
and includes many forms of sitting meditation.
THE IMME
(creative
visualization)
The
very important third main practice that permeates all others is Imme
- the Visualization and Imagery Practice.
Many
of us live in parallel world Realities......
IN
VISUALIZATION THE 'ME AND THE OTHER', SUBJECT- OBJECT MEET AND CAN
BECOME ONE..
Intended
visualization and imagination is a mindful act that bypasses
linear consequential think and mind chatter. As well, this can replace
a self-propelled unpredictable unreliable thinking process. The Imme
creates a framework for our imagination. This framework permeates
many of our practices and is especially included in the Hama
practice. As in our dreams, where we can "see" things,
visualization is linked to our subconscious/ unconscious and to our
feelings. When cultivated visualization and mental imagery can be
much faster and effective than our thoughts. As with the process of
thinking, in visualization, we can create a chain of associations and
reactions, and a chosen sustaining emotional environment where we
feel at home. This, in turn, will affect our thinking and feeling
abilities. The Hama and the Imme focus more on compassionate
mindfulness and awareness as a proactive intentional act that
complements passive mindful meditation.
Visualization and imagery
can connect our ' practical reality' to what in some indigenous
cultures is called 'Dream Time'. Such a "DreamTime' will color
and can transform our 'practical reality' as effectively as the more
passive mindful meditations. We involve our emotions, feelings or
'vibes' more here. Here 'our ordinary structured language' does not
feel at home....As we become established in the above 3 main
practices the chaos in our life will be reduced. The Maba, Hama and
Imme practices interplay, creating an on the spot chemistry of an
Aaahh Connecting moment,~~~they foster Community and this is what the
Aaahh is mainly about~~~
In
addition, the above 3 main practices meet another very important
function, the practice of Role-playing and Psychodrama. In the Aaahh
framework this exercise takes on an additional important purpose.
In
the Aaahh, members can practice meditations they already know and
feel comfortable and which also fit into the Aaahh culture.