CELEBRANT INSTRUCTIONS
Please arrive at least 20 minutes early, bring a pencil or pen and read these pages ahead of time.WHAT CAN I DO TO BE PREPARED?Read the following pages a few days before the service. WHERE DO I GET THE WORDS TO SAY?You are welcome to write your own words or locate words from another source to use in any section for which you are responsible. EVERY section in the printed Order of Service has an → (arrow) and most sections have a tab. However, you are not responsible for every section. WHO DOES WHAT IN THE SERVICE?You need to connect with the speaker BEFORE THE SERVICE to see if there are any sections THEY would like to introduce or which they are leaving out. If so, cross those off your script and/or make a note about how you will transition to the other person. The sections that may not be yours today will most likely be:(3)Opening Words (10)Meditation (11)Hymn for Meditation(13)Closing Hymn (14)Closing Words (16)Closing Circle SongHOW DO I GET THE SERVICE STARTED?Ring the chime to get everyone’s attention ay 10:30. See #1. The chime is either locatedunder the podium or in the supply cabinet against the wall. Once the music starts, everyone will stop chatting and sit down.I DON’T KNOW THE SPEAKER. HOW DO I INTRODUCE THEM?Introducing the speaker is the only place where you may have to “wing it.” IF a guest speaker… make sure you have some information about them. If you don’t already, talk to them before the service and get something!IF Amanda…she will need to be introduced by: “I’d like to invite our minister, Rev. Amanda Aikman, to the pulpit at this time.” (or something like that)
WHAT MAKES AN EFFECTIVE SPEAKER?- position the microphone and speak directly into it
- speak slowly, pause between sentences
- look at the congregation
- smile
- don’t put yourself down, laugh at mistakes, drop papers or make wisecracks
- if you need a moment to find your place, etc….. take it. we’re not going anywhere.
- compare the printed Order of Service to yours. make sure it matches.
- sit down with the congregation when the speaker comes to the podium
- thank the speaker, if appropriate. thank anyone else you feel needs to be recognized.
- remember: YOU ARE IN CHARGE. Act like it.
WHAT ELSE DOES THE CELEBRANT DO BESIDES TALK?(1) The celebrant contacts the speaker a week ahead, getting biographical info, answering questions, giving directions, finding out if they have any hymns they’d like to include, and coordinating who will do what, etc. They also confirm with Claire if there is anything different from the standard format for the Order of Service.(2) The celebrant sets up the podium for the service. Locate and put out: - glass plate with stones for Joys and Concerns from cabinet (wall) - small “vase” from same cabinet w/small amount of water, and place it next to the stones - microphone from the cabinet (back of room) and place into mike holder- chalice candle & large vase to hold it, small tea candle, “lighting stick candle” and matches from wall cabinet. 5 minutes before service, light the tea candle. - a glass of water for the speaker and tell them where it is (3) The celebrant acts as the organizer of the day:- check the heat, check the lights. Help with chairs or hymnals if needed.- check in with the speaker and the musicianWHERE ARE THE SUPPLIES FOR THE SERVICE?Most supplies are located in the storage cabinet on the North wall. Slide the front doors to the sides. Look around, as everything is probably in there but easily seen. Make sure you find everything ahead of time. If the cabinet has a padlock on it, this can be opened using the combination “500.”.*Prelude music may precede the service. Nod to the musician when you’re ready to start.*
GATHERING TOGETHER
1. → CHIME
Ring the chime to quiet people down. Nothing else need be said.
2. → GATHERING HYMN
Starts immediately. Pianist plays the hymn intro. No announcement needed.
3. → OPENING WORDS
Select your own words or choose from tab #3
4. → CHALICE LIGHTING
Select your own words or choose from tab #4.
5. → WELCOME AND INTRODUCTIONS
WELCOME: choose your own words or from tab #5 – PART 1
INTRODUCTIONS – PART 2
CLOSURE – PART 3
** On the first Sunday, the children will be with us to this point.
Kelly will handle that part of the service, until “Now we’ll sing the children out to This Little Light Of Mine. Please stand and make an arch for them”..DRAWING CLOSER
6. → HYMN
“Please stand as you are able for Hymn # ______ found on page ______ in the (grey) (teal) hymnal”.
7. → OUR UU HERITAGE
“Built on a history of tolerance and the search for freedom of religious thought, our UU heritage is rich and diverse. In the words of the only Unitarian king in 1568 - “We need not think alike to love alike” - and following the example of 16th-century Transylvania Unitarian congregations, we continue the search today. Did you know.... “ (start reading the passage for today)
8. → JOYS AND SORROWS
Select your own words or choose from tab #8. There are words for both BEFORE and AFTER.
TURNING TO ONE ANOTHER, TURNING WITHIN
9. → OFFERING
FIRST select your own words or choose from tab #9. THEN reach under the podium and get 2 baskets for the people who come forward to get them. Put them back under after the offering.
If the music runs beyond the basket return, just sit and wait.
10. → MEDITATION
If the speaker isn’t doing this and you would like to include one in the service, there is a tip sheet and some Introductory Words in tab #10. Choose your meditation from any source and feel free to use the chime before and after.
11. → HYMN FOR MEDITATION
Decide who is introducing this if there is one.
“Please (stand as you are able) (remain seated) and join in singing Hymn # ____________.
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THE MESSAGE
12. → You need to invite the speaker to the podium AND/OR introduce them at this time. What you say will depend on whether or not they have already been involved in today’s service.
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OPENING OUTWARD
13. → CLOSING HYMN
“Our closing hymn today is “ _____________”. Please stand and open the (black) (teal) hymnal to page _____.”
14. → CLOSING WORDS
Choose something appropriate here. A reading, poem or thought connected to the topic of the service would be best. If you don’t have anything, choose from tab #14.
15. → EXTINGUISH THE CHALICE
Select your own words or choose from tab #15.
16. → CLOSING CIRCLE SONG
“This ends our service for today. Please form a circle as we sing our closing song.
We’ll sing this twice. And please join us for coffee and conversation immediately after the service.”
.Tab #3 – OPENING WORDS
Welcome, friends.
to a day of hope and promise,
to a place of peace and comfort,
to a journey toward truth and justice.
and to a community of love and courage
that will help us along the way.
Come in…
Come into this place which we make happy by our presence.
Come in with all your vulnerabilities and strengths, fears and anxieties, loves and hopes.
For here you need not hide, nor pretend, nor be anything other than who you are and are called to be.
Come into this place where we can touch and be touched, heal and be healed, forgive
and be forgiven,
Come into this place, where the ordinary is sanctified, the human is celebrated, the
compassionate is expected.
Come into this place.
Together we make it holy.
Gathering together this morning from many directions, we give thanks for the beauty of this day, the warmth of this gathered company, and the breadth of the magnificent Spirit that calls us to worship.
.From the dailiness of our lives we come seeking transcendence.
Beyond time, beyond our physical selves, and yet within the context of this very moment, we seek to touch – and be touched by – the spirit of creation and hope. In this hour of worship, may we be open to the power of the Spirit of Life.
Come, let us worship together.
Let us open our minds to the challenge of Reason,
open our hearts to the healing of Love,
open our lives to the calling of Conscience,
open our souls to the comfort of Joy…
Astonished by the miracle of life, grateful for the gift of fellowship, confident in the
power of living faith, we are here gathered…
Come, let us worship together.
We come now to this house of worship.
Spirit calls to spirit;
Hand reaches out to hand;
Heart joins with heart;
Voice lifts with voice a song of praise.
Come, let us worship together.
Into this house of sacred community may we come…
to share, to learn, to speak, to listen, to grow together in the spirit
of peace and harmony and love.
We come eager to know, and to grow; to face the mysteries, and to
confront the hard questions.
We come to rejoice and be glad.
We come to be changed.
We are people of all ages who enter this space bringing our joys and our concerns.
We come together in hope.
We greet each other warmly with our voices and our smiles.
We come together in peace.
We light the chalice to symbolize our interdependence and our unity.
We come together in harmony.
We share our growth and our aspirations.
We come together in wonder.
We share our losses and our disappointments.
We come together in sorrow.
We share our concern and our compassion.
We come together in love.
We come to this place bringing our doubts and our faith.
We come together as seekers.
We sing and pray and listen. We speak and read and dream. We think and ponder and reflect. We cry and laugh and center. We mourn and celebrate and meditate. We strive for justice and for mercy.
We come together in worship
.Tab #4 - CHALICE LIGHTING
We light this chalice to find inner peace, love for each other, and faith in ourselves.
We strive to be welcoming to whomever we meet and kind to all living creatures.
So, gather around this light of hope as we share this time together.
We light the chalice of our living tradition with these words:
To face the world’s shadow, a chalice of light.
To face the world’s coldness, a chalice of warmth.
To face the world’s terrors, a chalice of courage.
To face the world’s turmoil, a chalice of peace.
May its glow fill our spirits, our hearts, and our lives.
The chalice lit amongst us is a beacon –
A beacon of hope, in a world in crisis;
A beacon of possibility, made manifest in community;
A beacon of warmth through our interconnections;
A beacon of light illuminating our shared wisdom;
A beacon of connection by our being together.
Deep calls unto deep, joys calls unto joy, light calls unto light.
Let the kindling of this flame rekindle in us the inner light of love, of peace, of hope.
And “as one flame lights another, nor grows the less”, we pledge to be bearers
Of the light, wherever we are.
.In this free church, we come together without creed, focusing instead on the
core values of justice, equity and compassion.
We come together in mutual acceptance of our diverse ways of being.
We come together in the stubborn belief that community is possible and that peace is more than a dream.
We light this chalice as a beacon of hope for those who have gathered here this day;
for all who have ever walked through our doors; for those who may yet find this spiritual home, and for those whose paths will never come our way, but with whom
we are ever connected in spirit.
May this flame, eternal symbol of transformation, fire our curiosity, strengthen
our wills and sustain our courage as we seek what is good within and around us.
We light this chalice for all who are here, and all who are not;
for all who have ever walked through our doors; for those who may yet
find this spiritual home; and for those we can’t even yet imagine.
For each of us and for all of us, may this flame burn warm and bright.
.Tab# 5 – WELCOME AND INTRODUCTIONS
PART 1
This is a free church.
Whether you are a theist or humanist, Christian, pagan, or nature mystic;
Whether you are gay, straight, transgender or bisexual;
Whether you are disabled or temporarily abled;
Whether you are young or old, or in-between.
We are so glad you are here today.
You make our circle complete.
The Mission of Skagit Unitarian Universalist Fellowship is to create a welcoming and loving religious community that cares for our planet and it inhabitants, inspires spiritual growth, promotes justice and encourages lives of integrity, joy and service.
All who are in sympathy with this Mission are more than welcome! We are so glad you’re here today.
Welcome to our liberal religious fellowhip, where your beliefs are embraced, your values are respected, and your priorities are important.
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PART 2 Choose one of these to continue.
If you’re visiting with us for the first time, or returning after a long absence, we extend an especially warm welcome to you. We invite you to stand, as you are able, and introduce yourself and tell us where you are from.
PART 3 – After people introduce themselves
Wherever you’re from, whoever you are, you are most welcome here.
.Tab #8 – JOYS AND SORROWS
BEFORE
This fellowship is a community of caring.
This is the time in our service when you are invited to share a personal joy or sorrow
with those gathered here. If you wish to share today, please come forward, speak your name into the microphone, drop a pebble into the water, and share your personal joy or sorrow at this time.
Ours is welcoming community where we find connection;
...a spiritual community where we find meaning;
Ours is a sharing community where our joys are amplified;
...a caring community where our sorrows are lessened;
We take this moment to reflect on our joys and sorrows and acknowledge the mutual support of our community;
If you would like, you may come forward and release a stone in the water in silence or with a brief verbal expression of a special joy or sorrow.
If you woke this morning with a sorrow so heavy that you need the help of this community to carry it; or if you woke with a joy so great that it simply must be shared, now is the time for you to speak.
You are invited to step up to the podium, introduce yourself and speak to us today.
.AFTER
And one final pebble for all the joys and sorrows not spoken but which we hold in our hearts.
A final pebble. May we remember those who have spoken, those they have named, and those we hold in silence in our hearts.
A last final pebble for the joys and sorrows that haven't been spoken, but which remain in the silent sanctuaries of our hearts. These joys and griefs, spoken and unspoken, weave us together in the fabric of community.
May we be reminded that all things come and go; that today’s joys and today’s sorrows will in time give way to those of tomorrow and that those of us who have strength to share today ought do so while we can, and that those who are in need ought allow ourselves to receive for tomorrow those roles might well be reversed. Spirit of Life, mother and father of us all, help us to remember those who are not here with us today, those who need what we have found here and those who have what we here need. May we always be open to growth and change, to movement, to grace. In the name of all that is holy, and in all the holy names that have ever been uttered (and those that have not even yet been imagined), let us say Blessed be, Shalom, and Amen.
.Tab #9 – OFFERING
The purpose of the church is to encourage all who gather here to grow more
generous in spirit and in action.
This is the great end of all the world’s faith traditions: to bring the human being closer to the divine by acts of creation and compassion.
We now take an offering that allows us to exercise that all-important generosity of spirit, an offering that will support this self-supporting church and its ministries.
The gifts of the congregation will be most gratefully received.
If you a re proud of this church, become its advocate.
If you are concerned for its future, share its message.
If its values resonate deep within you, give it a measure of your devotion.
This church cannot survive without your faith, your confidence, your enthusiasm.
Its destiny, the larger hope, rests in your hands.
The morning’s offering will now be gratefully received.
An offering will now be gratefully received for the work of this Fellowship.
This congregation is a theologically diverse religious community with membership
Open to all who are in accord with our principles and mission. We are an independent member congregation of the Unitarian Universalist Association, an
Association of approximately 1000 congregations in this country and around the world. Our congregation is entirely self-governed and financially supported by
the voluntary generosity of our members and friends. To this end, let there be an offering to sustain the work of this beloved community.
Tab #10 – MEDITATION
How To Write Your Own MeditationsThere are, essentially, three ways to offer meditations in a worship setting. The first is to say something while people listen quietly and reflect. It should be filled with sensual images, concrete things people can experience with their senses—sights, sounds, tastes, smells, feelings. The purpose is to invite people to have an experience; to stop thinking and spend some time “out” of their heads.The second type of meditation in a worship setting is a guided meditation. This involves leading the congregation on a “journey” in their imaginations by narrating where they go and what they do. You invite them to imagine themselves on a beach, for instance, and give them time to experience the sights and sounds of it. Then from the beach they go into the water, and then under the water, at each step pausing to allow people time to experience this new phase of the journey. This kind of meditation has a lot more silence in it, which can be daunting for some people, yet still has direction.The third kind of meditation is a silent meditation. To do this you offer a few words of invitation and then ask people to sit in silence for a set period of time. You might initiate the silence by ringing a bell or chime. Most people in our culture are not used to silence, so beginning with a minute or two will be hard for some. Despite the difficulty of such silence, we also deeply crave it. Some congregations have found that silent meditations have become beloved moments in their regular services.INTRODUCTIONS
As we enter this sacred silence, may our truest selves transcend the dissonance of daily distractions as we join the spiraling, infinite dance pulsing unseen throughout all creation.
So may it be. At this quiet time and in this place of worship we would seek to know more deeply what it means to love one another. We know so well our own needs. We know that we, ourselves need understanding, affection and recognition. Why is it then that so often we hesitate to extend these precious gifts to others? The cost of a kind word is small. The moment that it takes to listen could hardly be better used. A gesture of forgiveness can mark a new beginning. An embrace or a note of appreciation can convey crucial encouragement and comfort. And yet, so often we fail even within our own families to live by the sacred command that we should love one another. O Spirit of life and of love, strengthen our faith, increase our resolve to give more generously of ourselves. We pray for the courage to take the risks of love. We pray for the insight to see ourselves and others in perspective. We pray for humility and understanding that we may always stand ready to forgive and begin anew. Amen..Tab #12 – INTRODUCING THE SPEAKER
Now I’d like to welcome our minister, Rev. Amanda Aikman, to the pulpit.Our speaker today, ___________________,….. (then read your biography.)We are honored today to have with us ____________________.He/she is _____________________________..Tab# 14 – CLOSING WORDS
As you prepare to leave this sacred space pack away a piece of this church in your heart.
Wrap it carefully like a precious gem.
Carry it with you through the joys and sorrows of your days.
Let its gentle glow strengthen you, warm you, remind you of all that is good and true
until you gather here again in this place of love.
May we look with gratitude upon this day, for the beauty of the world, for the first radiance of dawn and the last smoldering glow of sunset.
Let us be thankful for physical joys, for hills to climb and hard work to do, for music that lifts our hearts in one breath, for the hand-clasp of a friend, and for the gracious loveliness of children who remind us of the wonders of life.
May we be appreciative above all for the concern and love of those around us; for the exceeding bliss of the touch of the holy which suddenly awakens our drowsy souls to the blessed awareness of the divine within us and within others.
For all of this, and for the countless other blessings present in our lives, let us be grateful. Amen.
I wish for you a troubled heart at times
As woes of world and friend come close beside
And keep you sleepless.
I wish for you the thrill of knowing
Who you are,
Where you stand,
And why.
Especially why.
Not prosperity, but dreams I wish for you;
Not riches, but a sense of your own worth I wish for you.
Not even long life, however proud we’d be to have it so.
But life that is crammed with living,
Hour by hour.
And love I wish for you;
May you give it frequently.
I wish for you solitude in the midst of company,
And a mind full of company within your quiet times.
Full todays I wish for you, and full tomorrows.
Traditional Transylvanian Blessing (Hungarian first – English follows)Hol hit – ott szeretet Where there is faith there is love Hol szeretet – ott béke Where there is love there is peace Hol béke – ott áldás Where there is peace there is blessingHol áldás – ott IstenWhere there is blessing there is GodHol Isten – ott szükseg nincen.Where there is God is all we need.And now may we go forth
in the certainty of faith,
in the knowledge of love,
and in the vision of hope.
And in our going, may we be blessed
with all good things on this day
and forevermore. Amen.
As we depart one from another, let our hearts be secure through every human season. Let our hearts be secure in seasons of anguish as in seasons of joy, in seasons of failure as in seasons of success, in seasons of uncertainty as in seasons of security. Let our hearts be secure in this dual reality: we are worthy recipients of love and support we can never earn, and we are worthy providers of love and support others cannot earn. Let our hearts be secure, for hearts know and understand and will respond if invited in.We have reached the end of this time for the gathering of memory
and for letting the imagination play with future possibilities.
We have enjoyed magic moments and edified each other.
Shall it be concluded, then? Or will this adventure, now commenced, continue --
Our separate paths converging, meeting, merging in the unending quest for love more perfect, the joyous struggle for meaning more sufficient
And life more abundant. Is this ending to be an ending,
Or merely prelude to new, more glorious beginnings?
I pose the question;
In your hearts lies the answer..Tab #15 – EXTINGUISING THE CHALICE
Lighting a candle is somewhat like the beginning of life. If that is true, then perhaps extinguishing a candle is like the ending of life. But death may not be the end of us. We live on in the memories of friends and loved ones. The influence we possessed in life works on, moving persons or causes forward. Let us not forget that most candles have more than one life, and so, perhaps, may we. We extinguish the chalice here that it might glow gently in our hearts. May it light your path as you leave this place. May it guide your way until we are together again.We extinguish this flame, a mere wisp of matter in process, almost as insubstantial as the thought of it. Yet our civilization has harnessed the power of such a flame to drive and shape a new world. So may it be with the power of our thoughts, that in truth and love they may drive and shape a new world.