Family Jenevieve M. Nelson I married Jenevieve on June 23, 2001 in Silver Run, Maryland, near her hometown of Westminster. We met in Beloit College and started dating during our junior year. Jenevieve has been teaching English just as much, if not more, than me. She taught English for 2 years in a different branch of the same school as mine in Japan. As I was taking graduate courses, Jenevieve paid the bills by teaching at a community college and a private institute for Koreans in Maryland. Afterwards, we both taught English in Korea, with Jenevieve teaching at a teacher training institute for schoolteachers and later at Sookmyung Women's University teaching freshmen English. After three years in Korea, we were in Russia where she spent most of her time writing a cultural/fiction novel, teaching English on the side of course. Now we are in Iowa City, where she is working from home as an online rater for oral proficiency interviews.Autumn Cecilia Coulee Nelson Slagoski Jenevieve and I welcomed our first child into the world on September 28, 2008. She was born 24 days premature but about as healthy as a full-term baby. She is named after my favorite season. Although we are not Catholic, her second name is her saint's name. And her third name is a reference to the place where she was born, the Coulee Region of Wisconsin.
My Multicultural Family I am the oldest of 5 children and the
only biological child of my parents, Daniel and Patricia. Two of my
brothers and my only sister were born in South Korea, and my youngest
brother was born in the Philippines. They were all adopted at separate
times. My sister, Kate, was my first sibling adopted in 1980 at the
age of 9 months. Four years later, I gained my first brother, Joshua,
in 1984 at the age of 3 years. Two years later, the Slagoski family
adopted Paul from the Philippines in 1986 at the age of 16 months.
Last but not least, the oldest of the adopted siblings at the age of
10, Lee was adopted in 1988. I grew up in this multicultural family with very little thought about my family being different from any other family. All of my friends and family in our hometown of Kenosha knew about my situation, so I never needed to explain it. It wasn't until I was in college, that I got surprising reactions after explaining my family. Some people didn't believe me, but most were impressed. I often believe that my curiosity in other cultures came from my unique upbringing. It is no doubt that this was a strong impetus for me to become a teacher of English to speakers of other languages. I remember teaching my siblings English as a child because I was concerned about my siblings' linguistic development. Of course that was secondary to the fact of me playing the role of the authoritative big brother. I know I am lucky when I realize that I have been learning about different cultures since I was 4 years old and I have been teaching English since I was 10. Not many people get to see their life's path appear in front of them so easily. |
Hobbies & Interests Cats I love them. They are my favorite animal. Sometimes I feel guilty when I feel more compassion for a cat and than a human being. Here is a picture of me with my cat, Dima. Dima joined my family in August 2007. He was my sister's cat before then, but she could no longer take care of him as she moved to a new place that had no room for an extra cat. Dima loves playing fetch with fuzzy balls, running into bags, spinning around in that red chair, and sleeping on my pillow. I think he likes me as much as I like cats.Skepticism Since
December 2007, my wife and I have been listening to podcasts of The Skeptics'
Guide to the Universe.
These podcasts have helped me realize that I am an open-minded skeptic
on most matters. They have also reawakened my interest in the
sciences, which I'd like to incorporate into my teaching. My favorite
book about skepticism is Carl Sagan's The Demon-Haunted World:
Science as a Candle in the Dark.
I'm also a big fan of "Amazing" James Randi and Michael Shermer.
Listening to these podcasts and reading these authors have given me a
great hope, and I look forward to a skeptical renaissance in the world. Taoism In slight contrast to skepticism, I am very interested in the philosophy of Laozi and Zhuangzi. I've picked up this philosophy/religion while in Korea, although Korea has a culture that prefers the opposing Chinese philosophy as dictated by Confucius. I try my best to incorporate this into my life. It is easier thought than done.I
am also interested in finding connections between the
philosophy-religion of Taoism and other religions. For example, I have
found strong similarities between Islam and Taoism while reading The
Heart of Islam
by Seyyed Hossein Nasr. I have also found similarities between the
beliefs of the Quakers and those of the Taoists. At the moment, these
three religious philosophies interest me most.
Experimental and avant-garde art My favorite art movement is Dada and all movements similar. I'm also a fan of the happening of the 1960s. I enjoy any art that makes me laugh. In college, Jenevieve and I created our own art-expression group that ran along the same lines as Dada and the Happenings. I only learned about these forms of art afterwards. I like to create art that is spontaneous and not intended for sale. Bowling and Badminton I like to bowl, but I am far from being a professional. Is bowling a sport? If so, bowling is my favorite sport. But I do not enjoy watching bowling on television. As a spectator, I enjoy American football. Not many people tackle me in bowling, so that plays a big factor in my love for it. But there's a concept for you: tackle bowling. I go bowling as much as possible when I visit friends in the United States. My highest score was recorded in Madison, WI at 193. My average score is around 120. I've bowled a few times in Russia and once in Korea. After participating in a wild badminton game during a wedding reception in May 2008, my wife and I have been into badminton. We always have a badminton set with us in the car, so we can play whenever we come across a good spot. American and British popular culture of 1967 I got into 1967 before Austin Powers made it popular for a while. What I like most about the pop culture of 1967 is the music. The Beatles' album "Sgt. Pepper's Lonely Hearts Club Band" and the Monkees television shows drew me to the year when I was younger. In college, I discovered a lot of rock and roll's best albums were published in that year. I believe it was one of the rare times in pop music history when artists had a lot of freedom to experiment at the expense of their distributors. Besides music, I like the art of the time. 1967 seems to me to be the last year of youthful optimism. Ever since the awful events in 1968 like the Tet Offensive and political assassinations, American youths have become more jaded. This is my opinion of course. I had a chance to
major in history, and 1967 would have been my research project. I
perceive a connection between my life and that year. Perhaps it's just
an obsession. Various genres of music Besides music from 1967, I also enjoy alternative electronic music of today. I don't mean the pulsing techno one hears at nightclubs or remixes of older pop songs. The band Stereolab is probably the most popular of this genre, although I now prefer the British band Broadcast. I also enjoy jazz, specifically Latin jazz. In fact, I like a lot of Latin music except for contemporary Latin pop music. On the topic of world music, I also enjoy Persian/Turkish music. Aside from the language, I haven't fine-tuned my ear enough to distinguish between Persian and Turkish music. My favorite classical music is Russian, another reason for me to appreciate where I lived last year. I haven't explored Russian music fully, but my favorite composer is Modest Mussorgsky. Of course, I also like Tchaikovsky, Rimsky-Korsakov, and Stravinsky to name a few more. Other genres I highly enjoy: blues, progressive rock of the 1970s, experimental classical and avant-garde modern music, minimalist classical, and hard bop jazz. Music is my only vice, an escape hatch from reality. "Music
is, to me, proof of the existence of God." - Kurt Vonnegut, Jr. Pacifism Before coming to Russia, I read Leo Tolstoy's The Kingdom of God is Within You, and his message resounded clearly to me. The message is very similar to that of Taoism. The book also comforted me in my Christian beliefs which I haven't totally abandoned. Tolstoy makes the very statement I needed for my reasons in not agreeing with most Christian pundits of our time.I hate war. World travel I have
lived in Japan, Korea, and Russia. I have visited China and Turkey. I would like to live somewhere on the Arabian peninsula next,
but I wouldn't mind living elsewhere. Now that I am working in the
United States, it is about time that I explore my own country. I have
traveled more of Japan and Russia than the US. The English language in all its forms I have always been interested in the English language since I started school. When I was young, grammar fascinated me. Now it bores me. When I was in high school and college, I love semantics and the playfulness of the language. Nowadays I love its flexibility when non-native speaking countries adopt the language. I believe in English as a world language, and I love to see the synthesis of English with other languages. I'm not a language imperialist, so I hope what I'm seeing is the birth of a new hybrid language that is as flexible as our human nature. |

