we say the opposite of Love is hatred,  however,  I must say that is not so.  the opposite of love is ignorant  ( and ignoring ).  in fact, anger and hatred would motivate us some actions  but  ignorant keep us lazy and careless. anger and hatred which come from our feelings of care but ignorant, on the other hand, is not to care, or simply ... not to know.

in English,  there are the words,  Smart,  Wise, and Intelligent, which are about being smart. smart means  simply  smart  who  knows  so  much.  wise  means  being  smart  yet  also  the knowledge is experienced. and intelligence  is  smart  yet  the  knowledge  still  learns and develops. if we are smart  but  the  knowledge  is  not  being  used  then  that  is the same as a library where so many books and which bunch of papers stored.

opposite  of  ignoring  is  attention.  the  fact  that there are so many crimes in our societies is due to the lack of attention to children.  love  is  not,  of  course,  about giving materials, but no matter how  busy  parents  are,  we  can  give  attention  to  children.  long time ago,  children grew up in bigger families, in villages and tribes where children  had  received  attention  from.   but  now  the environment, circumstances and families for our children are becoming smaller where the attention seem not much available to children.  when  attention  is  present,  we think and grow,  to give and to be given attention both grow. (you know or hear about flower that grow better if given attention)

all the living beings on this planet are to develop, 

in our history,  God has been understood  as  if  a being who exists as a person in a different place. and many religious have been teaching the god they teach & worship is the God.   and  through  the teaching of their gods, the true power within us as if do not exist. gods first we later, and sacrifice and wars.  and medicine,  manufactured medicine,  we throw into our system when we get sick.  so many vaccines since we were born as babies.  we have been parted  further  and  further  from our true intelligence  within  a body since we were born.  first I would like  to  say  we  to  stop  taking  and  relying on manufactured medicines.  there has  been  so  so  so  many animals sacrifice their lives !  and then we intake the products into our body mechanism,  and our bodies  learn to balance the body  mechanism  through  the  demand  of  the  foreign  objects.  as we repeat,  our true vital become  weakened,  the  body  can  not  maintain  the  health  on  its  own.   vitality  (  ki,  qi, chi, prana ... )  is  the antenna to God.  it  is  natural,  the  nature,  that we get sick  when  the  vitality lose  the  ability  to  connect  to  the  source.  when  we  are  sick  and  that  benefit  and profit the pharmaceutical  manufacturers,  however,  where  their  profits  benefit ? ... the medicine  that  we intake that comes out as urine,  and  that  we throw  away as expired,  go into and comes back  as  water that  is  not  only  for  us  humans  but  all  the  living  beings  on  this  planet.  ... you might wish to say  " but  there  are  the  children  who are saved by the vaccines " which is true  and  we  are  grateful  for  that.  but  the  fact  is not the medicines that  they  need,  what  they and we all  truly need is nutrition.  and our modern society there are many many children  who become autism due to the vaccine, the suppression of the true intelligence.

love is not blind  but awareness.  awareness that gives the attention.  so  the fact that we observe,  and that is where worry and anger also emerge.  that  is  why it sometimes is so hard to live in this world.  so do not  (self)  criticize negative emotions,  but recognize that there is love hidden within the negative emotions.

by The Law of Attraction we hear,  we  wonder  if  those children who are abused and in hunger are the consequence  of  their own negative behavior or karma.   however,  we exist within the soul we choose and the soul  is  not  what we truly are.  the soul has its own purpose.  the soul exist in this Free-Will dimension. free-will won't be achieved without ego. even monks live with their own ego to be monks.  so nurture our ego  within  love instead  of  condemning or trying to get rid of.  through the eye of the universe,  there is no good or bad,  no judgment.  everything is positive ... I  mean,  negative  is  also  in  a  positive  aspect ... I mean,  negative is not bad,  I mean, bad is not bad ... how  can  I  explain  this  ?  ( and  within  chaos  and  order ),  that  is  why  The  Law of Attraction brings  more  happiness to happiness, and unhappiness to more unhappiness.  however, everything  has Yin Yang within,  that  our lives can easily be shifted  by  what angle we observe from.  and  as we are not souls, what we truly are is the spirit, the light, or ki / qi or consciousness that who does not have a physical body,  so  that  sorrow  and  joy  are  both wonderful experience.  if  we are up there,  we are in love all the time, so embrace the pain & sorrow, that is treasure !  and appreciate it ! ... appreciation I hear  that  the same vibration  as  love, therefore,  you will get out of the pain after all :)  and do not be afraid  of  emotions.  we are the beings who love to develop so no matter how happy we can get,  we always hit the wall  because it is our nature to want more,  to be more, and that  is  what  we  simply  are,  the  intelligence !  and that is contributing the expansion of the universe ! ... however, if we do not wish to accept the world with the children  in  pain and hunger,  then we just must focus on how we like our world to be and what we can do for that, instead of just condemning.  trust our intelligence, and look forward to how our intelligence handle our world.

we the light become " I , me " by the soul we choose in this world and that we are also here to heal the soul and that we enjoy  as  the spiritual journey in this physical world. and through this physical body we manifested,  we enjoy  this  beautiful sensuality called five senses.  of course,  existing in this three dimensional world with a body is not so simple sometimes :)  however, five senses might sound limiting  but it is a very enriching experience, indeed.

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