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posted 27 Nov 2009 04:36 by Alexandra Tarling
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did not come into contact with the Chaplaincy until I had been at
Southampton for three years, because of my course and personal
circumstances. During those years, I had spent time looking for
fellowship, a church community, somewhere to explore my faith, but
found that people tended to prejudge my capabilities due to outward
appearances (for example, being concerned that I had come to church by
myself, or making assumptions about where and whether I took
communion). Once I moved to somewhere where I could access campus
easily, I wandered down to Chaplaincy myself. I was very pleasantly
surprised by the lack of judgement in the first conversations I had
with both Simon and Catherine; Simon discussed through my previous
faith experiences and not only what I wanted to get from Church and/or
Chaplaincy, but also what I could do for others, acknowledging that
there was no reason for me not to be part of the ministering community
(both inward and outward) that Chaplaincy is. This reignited my faith
journey; I had become disillusioned after becoming disabled as people
had started to place me more in the category of 'one to be done unto'
rather than an active Church member. Before I left Southampton, I had
had several serious talks exploring lay ministry. This would not have
happened had Chaplaincy and Simon not been so accommodating; the
community accepting me as myself meant that I could sit on the
floor/against a wall to receive Communion every week in fellowship no
matter how I was feeling...and that I could take an active part in
readings and biblical discussion, growing my faith. Now I have moved
elsewhere, I am having to consider receiving reserved sacrament alone.
The community's supportiveness and openess would not be present if it
were not for the provision of the building and Simon and his
colleagues; it helps and supports students of faith and of none.
Even
now I have left Southampton, I still get supportive vibes from the
Chaplains and the community: having moved across the country (which
would have been much harder had it not been for the chaplaincy friends
who came and willingly helped me pack), I was recently overwhelmed to
receive a beautiful A4 handmade card with supportive messages towards
my new life from the Chaplains and many of my old friends. How many
other communities forget about students once they are away from them?
As well as giving me hope, people are still supporting me in faith and
out, whilst I look for a church here (which I am not sure I would be
doing had it not been for my 2 years experience of chaplaincy at
Southampton).
I realise times are tight...but Chaplaincy and the
Chaplains do so much for so many students that is not replicated
elsewhere in Southampton at either the University or in the local
community. Please consider the impact the proposed budget would have on
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posted 24 Nov 2009 04:24 by Alexandra Tarling
I consider it my good fortune that I have been able to get to know Simon Stevens in my time at Southampton University. I have been able to get to know him in his more professional role where he has been a great aid and advisor on several occasions and, typical to the way Simon works, at the same time been able to get to know him as a friend and brother in Christ. It is thus on two levels that i appeal against this decision to remove Simon from the University of Southampton: 1) For the great aid he (and the Chaplaincy) is to us and many other societies at the University 2) For the fact that I do not wish for a man whom i consider a good friend, valued aid and advisor, and Brother in Christ to be removed from his place here at the University.
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posted 24 Nov 2009 04:23 by Alexandra Tarling
The work that Rev. Steven and the Chaplaincy do is brilliant and highly essential. The consequence of a termination of funding to the chaplaincy will result in the University becoming a completely secular community, with the absence of a Christian voice and body.
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posted 24 Nov 2009 04:21 by Alexandra Tarling
As having personally gained support from the Chaplain at the University of Southampton's Chaplaincy, I feel that this a great resource to the students and staff of the university and is greatly needed.
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posted 23 Nov 2009 10:31 by Alexandra Tarling
I was on the Jewish Society committee for 2 years, and the work of the Chaplaincy to get all faiths a recognised space, and a platform in the University, was testament to the true sense of devotion to students' spiritual wellbeing that typifies all of the Chaplains.
Simon, Father Mike, Sister Catherine, the Free Church Chaplains, all worked tirelessly over my three years (2005-8) to make Chaplaincy a welcoming place, a place of refuge and a place of tolerance. Without it, there would have been no Jewish Society Friday nights, no CathSoc/JSoc bible study, no community events, no Chanukah doughnut free-for-alls, no interfaith days, no masses, no meditation, no SCM meetings, no £1 breakfasts, no Wii - crucially, no place on campus for anyone to come and just chat, emote, ask, find or debate, without fear of prejudice or ridicule. Unless they were wearing a silly jumper, which Simon often did.
I wish that the diocese could see beyond their budget - if their mission is to evangelise, where better than at University (my views on evangelism aside); if they want to maintain Christian life on campuses and inspire people into community and religious action, where than on a campus full of students with time and the inclination to make the world a better place? There are easy solutions, there are surmountable problems, but most importantly, people's livelihoods and the spiritual provision for thousands of students is at risk.
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posted 23 Nov 2009 10:28 by Alexandra Tarling
Chaplaincy has been the one consistancy throughout the hardest years of my life so far, I wouldn't be where I am without Rev. Stevens support! |
posted 23 Nov 2009 10:23 by Alexandra Tarling
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This place and its ministers have saved countless many of us. We must preserve it for both ourselves and future generations. Those future generations who have trouble fitting in, who are afraid, who are depressed, who need a place to pray or a simple cup of tea. Those future generations who just don't want to be alone. For them and for us, this is our home away from home, its people, our family away from family. A sanctuary. |
posted 23 Nov 2009 10:21 by Alexandra Tarling
Reverend Stevens' work at the University of Southampton goes far beyond the role of Chaplain. He is an integral part of the community here, since he's played such a large part in creating it in the first place, and is never short of a new idea to the make the University a better place.
He has made it his mission to get to know every single student at the University, and in doing so has spread positivity and support to thousands of people. This wide presence has not only helped many people, but has also spread the word of Christianity around the campus.
Somebody viewing the situation from the outside may assume that the closure of the Chaplaincy would only affect a handful of people, but the students at the University of Southampton - the people who have experienced the impact of Reverend Stevens' work firsthand - realise what a huge dent this would be to our community. It is no exaggeration to say that this action would negatively affect thousands of people, and in particular the one person who has worked so hard to make things better for everyone. |
posted 23 Nov 2009 10:18 by Alexandra Tarling
I have been at southampton university for nearly 4 years, and during this time Simon has been a most welcoming, friendly and dedicated chaplain. The work he and the others chaplains do as part of the "Chaplaincy" have helped me stay committed to my faith, and provided an atmosphere for debate and discussion, allowing every one to grow and develop their faith, with of course self awareness being a fundamental part of university learning. |
posted 23 Nov 2009 10:16 by Alexandra Tarling
I haven't been going to Chaplaincy on a regular basis for very long, but have instantly felt comfortable.
Rev. Stevens is a big part of that. He helps create a welcoming atmosphere that means all students, whether they are Christian or not, can have a place to go to and study or simply hang out. |
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