Remember the Ceremony


Custom Weddings with Reverend Heidi L. Fish, M.Div., ELCA 


“Thank you for sharing our special day with us!  Everyone told us how pleased they were with the ceremony….”

  Amy & Mark Hammingh

“On the occasion of our 3rd wedding anniversary we just wanted to let you know how much we appreciated your counseling, guidance and wedding message!  These have supported and guided us often in the past three years as we navigated the calm & also the turbulent marriage waters!  We are stronger individuals and marriage partners because of it…” 

  Jan Herdman & Rich Wilson

“Dear Pastor Heidi, Bill and I wish to thank you for blessing us so well at our wedding.  We loved your sermon—it was perfect for us…”  Susan & Bill Hayes

 

 

 

Congratulations!

You’ve found the person you want to share your life and memories, and are beginning to plan your wedding.  You will invite friends and family to gather around you on your special day.  Make sure  that your ceremony is so good that they’ll be talking about it for a long, long time!

 

Custom weddings

Pastor Heidi Fish has conducted over 150 weddings, customizing each one  to the particular values, beliefs, and personalities of the couple.  Pastor Heidi takes time to get to know you, and will help you create a unique and very personal ceremony.  She has written extensively for weddings, and would enjoy translating your dreams into meaningful experiences and beautiful words.

 

Religious, interfaith or secular ceremony

Pastor Heidi is an ordained Lutheran minister with 20 years of experience in the Pacific Northwest.

She has conducted many ceremonies for people who  want little to no religious language in their wedding, couples desiring a creative blending of their differing religious traditions, and for those who want a strong proclamation of their faith as an integral part of the celebration.  You will appreciate her openness and non-judgmental attitude.


 Get to know

Pastor Heidi

“I believe in marriage, and I think every marriage deserves the very best preparation and the very best start possible.  I find great joy in helping  you to create the most memorable ceremony you or your guests have ever seen!

Getting to know the couples I’ve worked with is delightful, and I love to hear how they’re doing years later.

In design and conduct of the ceremony, my style is personal and dignified, responsive to  you and your guests.  I am comfortable with everything from a very liturgical worship service to an informal gathering in your back yard, or whatever creative venue you’ve dreamed up!”

 

How it works

  •   If  you are interested in talking with me about your ceremony, e-mail me to arrange an initial, free consultation to see if we’re a good fit! 
  •    We’ll schedule 2-3 sessions of counseling, using the PREPARE pre-marital inventory. These sessions can be scheduled (and located) for your convenience.
  •    It will take 1-2 sessions to design your wedding, depending on your needs.
  •   I’ll conduct the rehearsal before the wedding.  For a Saturday wedding, I recommend a Thursday rehearsal, if at all possible, but the evening before also is fine.
  •   I’ll arrive an hour before the ceremony is to begin, to make sure everything is ready.
  • The wedding will be wonderful!
  • I file the marriage license with the proper authorities.

Costs

We'll discuss the pricing structure during the free consultation, as I use a sliding scale.  A  $100 deposit may be requested. If the ceremony is to take place outside the Puget Sound area, travel and expenses should be reimbursed.  Payment plans can be arranged, but full payment is expected before I file the license!