美国偶像洛山矶海选,一位64岁的老人为了鼓励身患癌症的妻子,拿着数百人的请愿书破格参赛.而在比赛的前两天,妻子还是离开了人世.当他说"请不要同情",一脸平静又满怀深情的唱着You Belong To Me时,打动了评委,打动了所有人.
    妻死,庄子鼓盆而歌曰:"其始而本无生，今变而之死，是相与春夏秋冬四时行也。人且晏然寝于巨室，而我嗷嗷然随而哭之，自以为不通乎命。"  这是圣人的生命真理.一个渺小的生命对于芸芸众生来说无足轻重,但是对于某些人来说是无可取代的补充.圣人说生死如四季更替;说当泛起不系之舟,饱食而遨游天下;说想拥有的越多就越痛苦.而我宁愿相信那些不可或缺的羁绊.生命虽无常,但能分享另一个人的春夏秋冬,无论是一年还是百年,都是死亡带不走的美好记忆.
    最动人的不是泪流满面的悲伤,而是缓缓道来的眷恋.鼓盆而歌者,笑死生也,今当为君鼓盆歌.
 
You Belong To Me
 
See the pyramids along the Nile
Watch the sunrise on a tropic isle
Just remember, darling, all the while
You belong to me
 
See the marketplace in old Algiers
Send me photographs and souvenirs
Just remember when a dream appears
You belong to me
 
I'll be so alone without you
Maybe you'll be lonesome too
 
Fly the ocean in a silver plane
See the jungle when it's wet with rain
Just remember 'til you're home again
You belong to me
 
I'll be so alone without you
Maybe you'll be lonesome too
 
Fly the ocean in a silver plane
See the jungle when it's wet with rain
Just remember 'til you're home again
You belong to me