Deliberately homeless What it means to be
a full-time PT by Paul
Terhorst
My wife Vicki and I are PTs, perpetual travelers. We
wander the world, from Paris to Bangkok, from Las Vegas to Buenos Aires,
enjoying what we find and then moving on. Sometimes we stay a month or
two, sometimes a year or two. I like to think of us as homeless. Not the
destitute homeless, but homeless in that we own no home, have no home
base, and have no place to return to. Home, for us, is wherever we plug in
our little computer.
I used to stay
in one place for years at a time, and work for a living. I was a CPA and
eventually became an audit partner at Peat, Marwick, Mitchell, the big
accounting firm now known as KPMG Peat Marwick. But in 1984, when I was 35
years old and working out of the Buenos Aires office, I hung up my pencil
and retired. I wanted more time to myself, more time with Vicki. We wanted
to travel, see old friends, make new friends, and play.
During those early retirement years, we kept
a small apartment in Buenos Aires. We returned every summer after six to
nine months of travel. We kept our stuff there and used the apartment as
our home address. In 1991, however, we decided to get rid of the
apartment.
For one thing, Argentina revalued the peso.
Our apartment expenses quadrupled, and Buenos Aires came to cost more than
San Francisco or Rome. But the main reason we wanted to get rid of the
apartment and become PTs was because we were tired of returning to the
same place every year. When you have a home base, you have to check in at
home now and again. We didn't want to do that. We wanted to be free to
stay or go, anytime, anywhere.
Full-time PTs We became true PTs and hit the road in early 1992. We
immediately fell in love with our new lifestyle, so full of freedom and
adventure. During our travels, through friends and eventually through our
home page, we started meeting other PTs. We now know a good number of
active PTs, ex-PTs, and almost-PTs. We exchange travel and other tips
through E-mail and a private forum on the Internet. Active PTs generally
begin their E-mail with "We're in Rome (or Glasgow or Buenos Aires or
...)."
Are you a candidate for becoming a
PT? The PT lifestyle is not for
everyone. To find out if you're a likely candidate, ask yourself three
questions. Have you ever worked for the government? How attached are you
to stuff? Do you use the Internet and E-mail?
Whom do you trust? Have you ever worked for the government?
If you have, the PT life is probably not
for you.
You may be an exception,
but in my experience those who work for the government tend to trust the
government. They also tend to trust other institutions, such as insurance
companies, Microsoft, the AMA, and public education. They like security
and predictability, and they associate those things with
government.
PTs tend to trust people rather than
institutions. If PTs need a hospital in Thailand, we get our innkeeper's
recommendation rather than call the consulate. We steer clear of lawyers
and courts, and we steer clear of situations that might lead us to need
lawyers and courts. If we need travel and emergency assistance, we seek
help from a fellow traveler rather than from American Express. We travel as
tourists, if at all possible, rather than beg bureaucrats for residence
permits.
Don't get me wrong. PTs like security and
predictability, too. It's just that security to us is a trusted friend, a
helping hand, rather than a government program.
Vicki and I trust people, and we like people
to trust us. For example, when renting an apartment, we make it a rule to
deal only with principals, not agencies, and never to leave large damage
or security deposits. We sit down with the owner, explain who we are and
how we live, and tell him why we want the apartment. The owner gets to
know us and, presumably, to trust us. We'll pay a deposit of a month's
rent or so, if we have to, but that's it. Paris rental agencies ask for
two or three months rent as a deposit or prepayment, and one even asked us
for five months. Forget it. These people don't trust me, and I don't trust
them.
How attached are you to
stuff? A friend with a
96-year-old mother tells me Mom is afraid to die because of what will
happen to her stuff. She figures her son—my friend—will irreverently get
rid of her stuff, which, of course, he will. Since she can't bear the
thought, she's decided not to die.
PTs live with very, very little stuff. Vicki
and I have three boxes in a friend's garage in Buenos Aires, three more in
Las Vegas, and four more in Los Angeles. That's it. Except for tax returns
and a few other records, we could get rid of even those few boxes if we
had to.
Can one be a PT and still keep a small
apartment or house trailer? We hear that question a lot. My answer is that
living as a PT is an attitude as much as a lifestyle. The point is not how
much stuff you have but to what extent your stuff controls your life. In
general, if you find yourself flying back home to take care of your stuff,
when you'd rather be doing something else, you probably have a long way to
go before becoming a PT.
Do you use the Internet and
E-mail? PTs tend to make
friends all over the world. We plan trips around trips other PTs take. The
only practical way to do this is with E-mail. Using E-mail is like having
your friends in your living room whenever you want them. Vicki and I
receive about 30 E-mails a day, half from friends and family and half from
information services I've subscribed to. In a very real sense, our home
address is our E-mail address, the best address you can have.
In summary: if you distrust government and other
institutions, can live without lots of stuff, and like the freedom of
E-mail and the Internet, you may well be a candidate for PT.
A few practical tips
First, work into the PT life gradually. To
retire is a big step; to retire and become homeless is an almost
impossibly big step. Take these things one at a time. While you're still
working, travel around a bit and decide where you'd like to spend more
time. Travel for a month rather than a week. When you retire, you'll
probably want to do nothing for a while; this feeling typically wears off
in six months or so, however. That's the time to set up housekeeping in
that special place you've dreamed about. For us it was a small beach town
on Argentina's Atlantic coast. After a couple of months in the new
location, ask yourself a couple of questions: Do you want to stay or
return home? Do you want to move on or move back? The answers to these
questions will help you decide the next step.
Should you decide to become a PT, your
second step should be to get yourself a residence address. You need a residence
address even if you don't have a residence, for bank statements, tax
returns, credit card bills, etc. Vicki and I use the address of a brother
in Washington. Another alternative is to use Mail Boxes Etc. or a similar
mail-forwarding service. The best mailing addresses are in states with no
income taxes: Washington, Nevada, and Texas, for example. Because the
United States taxes its citizens on worldwide income, whether they live in
the States or not, American PTs pay U.S. income taxes. But you should
avoid getting caught with a residence address in a state with a high
state-income tax. Over the
years, many wannabes have told me they'd like to be PTs but don't have a
relative or friend whose address they can use as a mail drop. I was
perplexed. “After all,” I figured, “everyone must know someone with an
address.” I finally realized that these wannabes expected too much. They
wanted their relatives or friends to open, read, and answer their mail,
pay their utility bills, fight tax assessments, manage rental properties,
fill out applications, and make investments. Too much. My brother simply
tosses my mail in a box. On the rare occasion when I need something, I
send him an E-mail. He digs out what I need and mails it to
me.
Simplify, simplify All of that brings me to my third tip: Simplify.
Consolidate accounts, sell real estate, cancel little-used credit cards,
and get rid of vehicles. Buy index funds, or individual stocks you plan to
hold for a while. Cancel memberships, subscriptions, and obligations.
Again, if you need someone to open your mail on a regular basis, you're
probably still too complicated for the PT life.
Vicki and I have four data files: names and
addresses, boxes in storage (where they are and what's in them), important
information (credit cards, passport numbers, birthdays, etc.), and bank
and broker information. We keep these four files on our travel computer
and print them out when we get to a printer. The printout is 12 pages,
which we then copy on both sides of six pages for easy travel. Our lives
in six pages! We leave backup copies of the four files on the Internet, on
disks we carry with us, and on a friend's computer.
Find your favorite places
Fourth, choose your favorite places. This
is the fun part of being a PT, and it deserves much time and attention.
Since leaving Buenos Aires in 1992, Vicki and I have lived from one month
to two years in Austin, Texas; Chapala, Mexico; Puerto Vallarta,
Mexico; London; Chiang Mai, Thailand; Bali; Sydney; Las Vegas; and Paris.
Sometimes we just hit the road for several months. When we do, we tend to
revisit our favorite countries, but we also like to explore new ones.
Right now, for example, we're thinking of Burma, Sri Lanka, Cuba, and
Egypt.
We get our ideas about where to live from
other PTs, from friends, and from research on the Internet. But we also
know what we like and dislike. For example, although we've enjoyed living
in small towns and villages, we prefer big cities that offer a lot to
do.
Use convenient check cards
Fifth, use Visa or MasterCard check cards.
These used to be called debit cards, or combination ATM/debit cards, and
they’re available from big brokers like Fidelity and Charles Schwab. Check
cards let you access your cash directly. You can stick the card in a cash
machine anywhere in the world and get the local currency you need. To
access a larger amount, go into the bank and ask for it. You'll get a good
exchange rate, often far better than on the street.
I have two check cards, one for everyday use
and a second for backup. I also have a credit card, with automatic payment
that I monitor on the internet. That way, I don't have to worry if statements catch
up to me, which they rarely do. I use the Internet to access all my
accounts. Periodically, I check for unauthorized transactions, monitor my
exchange rate, and get balance statements.
Forget about traveler's checks. You pay to
buy them, get a lousy exchange rate when you cash them, and have a hassle
when you lose them.
PTs…the few, the
free
When in Paris Vicki and I go to
conversation groups to practice French. Group members often talk about
their lives--you have to talk about something--in French. When it's our
turn, we explain the PT lifestyle. Invariably, the younger group members
swoon. "How wonderful! What freedom! Just to leave the routine!" But
older, more mature members tend to look at us thoughtfully. They too see
the freedom from routine. But they ask themselves the tougher questions:
“What about my books and mementos? Kids and aging parents? My dream home,
and the finally affordable mortgage? Our cars?”
I never argue with them; their points are
well taken. The PT life calls out only to the few.
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