Since I'm back with my first love, I have become a different person. It's that type of change that I needed. There was a time that I could be like cursing people out for getting me pissed off. Now I'm calm and logical. Now I get my first huge test in this relationship.

The Ex-girlfriend

I'll give her a code name Jada. Jada is a funny girl, but annoys the hell out of ya. We been through alot and as things started to come to an end, we decided to split for what we thought was forever. On Monday, my phone rings.

It's Jada again. Different number, familiar voice. She called me back for a reason, she wants me back. How do I know? She called me her Boo. Why am I not surprised? My friend Tru told me that it might be a trap. She's worried that it would lead to more than friends. She is worried that it would lead to sex.

I went over to Jada's house and we've spoke and I was wondering what is on her mind and she said she wanted me back but as friends.

Alright I said to myself, but I have a hint something was up and I don't mean my joystick.

"I want to be friends with some benefits that come with it"

She did not just said what I thought she said. Benefits? Tru was right. She want sex and she wants it from me.

I know myself too well and I know I'm a gamer. I like to take risks but this time I told her what I know what to do in this situation. I put my cards down and told it how it is. I will not be friends with benefits. Our past is that...In the past. I don't want to be involved with sexual experiences where we have sex without any meaning to it.

Some would say to get rid of her but there is one problem in trying to get rid of her.........My girlfriend's family moved into the area next door to Jada.......Oh fuck.

So now what's a guy to do? Fuck her or tell her to Fuck off?

No I'm not even gonna go there with her. I just play my cards right and just say "No Thanks