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 some will argue that fate determines whether you do or not. 

you may choose to believe this

 or

you can take control of your life

 

there are many turn-offs that affect your sexual prospects

 incredibly, many people are oblivious to their turn-offs

 

  improve 

  -your body-

 &

        boost

 your sex appeal

 

 

 take a long hard look at yourself

 &

start doing what YOU can do to change

 

i will not claim statistics or science supports my suggestions or opinions, even if they do.  if you choose to ignore the overwhelming volume of anecdotal information, you do so to your own detriment.

  

would you not like to be as confident and comfortable with yourself and your body as the young guy in this clip obviously is with being himself ??

 http://www.yourfilehost.com/media.php?cat=video&file=0_guys_gone_wildmikebiserta_fdny_ggw.wmv

(Before any of the misery minded jump in and tell me that he's a pro and it was staged, when the clip was made he wasn't and even if he was it still makes the point)

  

I am working at it every day

some of us may like hairy bodies, but most seem to think less hair is better, especially so for excessive pubic hair.

overabundant pubes have any number of downsides, from collecting sweat & odours......... yuck !........ to obscuring your (most) important asset ! 

 

men take note, more hair makes your cock look smaller ! 

 

   ?? which of these 2 cocks do you think would get the most oral action ??    

 

considering your partner  is sufficient reason to trim or shave some of your groin, cock & balls or pussy. 

 

 

 

you won't enjoy gagging on hair  -  why expect your partner to ?

 

and really, dental floss isn't expensive enough to make pubic hair an attractive substitute !

 

you will be surprised at the newfound interest and enthusiasm your partner suddenly exhibits when confronted with absent or well managed pubes ! all kinds of interesting activities will result from this small effort on your part! 

shaved balls are just so much more appealing!

 

you'd be amazed, if you haven't already experienced it, just how soft your ballbag is and how the velvety texture of the skin makes for a very inviting tongue target or finger feel.

 

 

the mere touch of fingertips lightly brushing your balls is amplified into near electric intensity as there is no hair to impede skin on skin contact. tongue tours are almost too much to handle and your partner, not being a cat,  will thoroughly appreciate not having to cope with hairballs !

your balls is one of the most exhilirating but ignored erogenous zones on your whole body, but there are more reasons than just that for wanting to make your balls a centre of attraction...... right below your balls your exploring partner will find the perineum which is the skin between your ballbag and your ass. if u have never had some attention paid to this part of your body, you don't know what you have been missing ! oh yeah, this goes for the fairer sex too........women love the tip of yr tongue trailing lightly through here on your way south...........don't worry, in consideration of the less adventurous amongst us we will deal with that destination at a later stage

 

if you have hair there, as many of us do, then i'd suggest you keep that hair removal tool handy for just a tad longer and smooth this area into a tongue teazing zone, or finger fiddle zone, if you or partner doesn't like tongue tactics. the results will blow you away !

some swear by the old faithful razor.......... some swear at it !

modern technology has fortunately provided us with some realy neat gizmo's which will 

leave your balls&cock or pussy velvety smooth and oh so inviting for a tongue treatment and more................

this purpose designed shaver that I've found works very well as it's been specially designed for the pubic areas. no nicks and cuts, no ingrown hairs and designed to get into all those hard to reach spots

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you may want or need to consider using one of the hair removal products for sensitive areas to get at those places that you cannot reach or that does not handle shaving very well.

In this day and age of readily available baths and showers, it is shocking to read in many of the forums on the web, how often people complain about their partners not paying sufficient attention to their personal hygiene.

there simply is no excuse for this. self-respect in itself should be more than sufficient motivation for everyone to practice impeccable personal hygiene.   i cannot comprehend how people can still go around expecting others to be enthusiastic about sharing their bodies, whether that's just a kiss on the mouh or a tongue treatment to the cock or pussy or more, when any part of them smell (or look) less than clean & fresh ! shame on you if you are guilty !

smell is one of the most powerful of the senses and presents a whole host of opportunities to make your partner want you oh so badly !

a redhot kiss by a mouth and tongue thats tingling fresh is enough to light anyone's fire.  don't throw away all the pleasures a kiss from a mouth like that can lead to by not caring for the skin of your face, not to even mention nose hairs, ear hairs and the hair on your head. no matter how sensual the kiss, if the landscape surrounding it screams neglect or even worse, isn't clean, it's gonna ruin the moment. no more fun for you !

taking care of your face starts with the very basic - washing with a face cloth and good quality soap, suitable for the more gentle skin on your face. it does not end with having a clean face though, important as that is.

facem skin galvanic/ageloc

have you taken a really close look at your face in a mirror? how about looking at your nostrils? not too pretty a picture when you peek in there is it? imagine how much of a passion killer it is when someone closes in for a kiss and spots a booger stuck in yourr nose hairs ? or almost as bad, you have a hair or two or more sticking out of your nostril ? or out of your ears ? or in the case of the ladies, hair on the chin or upper lip ?

nose and ear hair trimmer product

facial hair remover

sparkling clean teeth is something we can all have. no matter how sexy your smile, if you don't take care of your teeth ( and tongue and breath) your appeal isn't going to last very long.

oral b brush , breath freshener, mouth wash etc

 

aarl

mouth rinse

mint chews/strips/herbal breath freshener

skin lotion

lip balm

nose and ear hair

 

hands

clean

skin

nails

 

ass & groin

remember to always pay extra attention to your whole groin and especially your ass crack when showering or taking a bath. it's incredible how persistently residual skin odours can linger, even if you have given it a thorough wash with soap* and hot water.  a good quality anti-bacterial soap applied with a mild scrub is the least you should be doing. two or three times is what i wash it when in the shower, making sure i wash under my balls, in the folds of your groin where your legs meet your groin, and between your legs and into your ass. the less hair you have there the easier to keep it all fresh and inviting. there are few turn-offs as powerful as body odour.

no nasty surprises should await an adventurous partner anywhere down there !

asshole hygiene

soap

flavoring/freshening

ass pleasures

 

 

this one had me in stitches the first time i saw it, i mean please, we have wet wipes for almost anything you can imagine nowadays, whether it's cleaning your hands or mosquito repellent but come on ........ a hardon cock wipe !!

well you better believe it, this is a wipe with a difference ! instantaneous zap (ok, almost) to get your cock to stand to rockhard attention. this is just what you need if you've been at it for too long but it's so fuckin good you just don't wanna stop, your cock however is thinking about quitting on you .... argh !! time to reach for a hardon cock wipe  !

 before you dismiss this as something which only the old and decrepit need, get yourself a packet for that "just in case" occasion where your cock decides to have a mind of it's own and spoil your fun. individually wrapped, the wipes are as easy to carry on you as a condom.