A Work in Progress
hi! my name is christina, and this is my first attempt at a webpage.
i live about one hour northeast of atlanta, georgia, with my husband, dustin, and our son, séan. we also have two cats. our marriage is a polyamorous one, though we haven't have time for extracurricular activities since our son was born in november 2004. i am black, and dustin is white.
for all practical purposes, our household is a non-theistic one, though we unabashedly and enthusiatically give gifts at christmas, eat easter dinner with dustin's family, and celebrate halloween. more specifically, dustin is more of a weak atheist than anything else, while i lean more towards naturalistic pantheism. my beliefs don't hamper my love of learning about religions, though.
politically, i vote libertarian whenever i can, while keeping in mind that the republican party started out as a third party in the 1800s. i suppose you could call me an optimist. i'm a bra-burning feminist (but not my good nursing bra, please!), and am unapologetically pro-choice. i'm theoretically in favor of the death penalty, but don't believe that capital punishment, as it's currently practiced, is fair or practical and so should be stopped. i believe most drugs should be decriminalized and so should prostitution.
i love to read and research, and that has informed many of our decisions in running our household:
- i use the sympto-thermal method for birth control.
- séan was born at home, with just dustin in attendance.
- i'm still nursing séan 17 months later.
- séan was not circumcised and, to date, has not been vaccinated. a few, selected vaccinations are on the horizon, though.
- we use cloth diapers and elimination communication.
- we co-sleep, and do not spank. the next time we move, we will set up a separate kid-bedroom, but will make the transition to it as child-led as possible. not spanking will be a challenge, because dustin and i both grew up in hitting households, but we are committed to non-violent discipline.
- séan, and future children (our current target is three), will be homeschooled.
- we are omnivores, and subscribe to the weston price school of thought in food preparation. we haven't experienced the astounding gains in good health that i've read about, but i do enjoy cooking and feel good about the more thoughtful and deliberate methods of cooking that price espouses.
- one day, i will try my hand at micro-farming.
some people would say that i read too much. oh, well. currently, i'm slowly working my way through the sivananda companion to yoga after a much-too-long hiatus following séan's birth. i'm also reading a bound version of john taylor gatto's underground history of american education.
i have a horror of poor grammar and spelling that's equal to the horror i have of using capital letters in informal writing on the internet. i keep a livejournal which chronicles more of what i do, as opposed to this webpage, which will chronicle more of what i think. and lastly, you can email me here.