THE VOICE OF IQ
The world is more wonderful and life much more beautiful for men because there are women, and for women because there are men. And for both of them, there is something called ‘love’ to unite them forever. The message of the Valentine Day is to give love its proper due in this impersonal world.
A relationship cannot be developed on an infatuation. It has to grow gradually and both the partners need to contribute to make a good relationship. Only genuine love can provide a solid foundation for marriage.
The truth is that every marriage at the start is an empty box. The couple must put something in before they can take anything out. There is no love in marriage; love is in people. There is no romance in marriage; people have to infuse it in their marriages. A couple must learn the art and form the habit of giving, loving, serving, trusting, respecting appreciating each other and thus keeping the box full.
There is sadly not much love today in the married life of countless couples who have passed the initial ‘infatuation’ stage of their relationship. It is more likely that the bliss of romance has withered away to the tune of work deadlines, kids’ schedules, financial strains, etc. What is essential is working together and committing to figure out how to make things work even when it seems impossible.
A successful marriage requires being in love always with the same person. Because you are only a half — and like a puzzle, but together with the other, he/she brings twice as much depth and meaning to you and your married life. --Sajith Cyriac
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