 There is a common misconception among people between fate/destiny and self effort in life. If some thing what is written in ones fate/destiny then it should be his/her without any effort, and if something is not written in ones fate/destiny then why one should strive it. My answer to this is: The fate/destiny is broader vision of what lies in ones life in this world and life after death, which ALLAH has written ahead of time. But one can influence it by his/her efforts, which will be judged upon the Teachings of Quran and Sunnah. Fate/destiny is like a graph paper. You have Axis with positive numbers (rewards) on right side of the zero and negative numbers (punishment) on left of the zero. This is upon ones sheer honesty and efforts that how much positive or negative points he/she able to earn, which will plot his/her final line of fate/destiny. That is how you can influence the fate/destiny. Azam Paki Too much talking is not good, neither is too much silence. But if you keeping you self quite, you are still letting an impression of yours being built, which might be a false one, So its better to build real impression by talking than, letting a false impression being built by keeping quite. Azam Paki. You can avoid serious misunderstanding being created between you and others, in the name of negotiator/ facilitator do not let any body spoil you relationship, be direct always. Azam Paki Simple rule be successful in the life is to respect every thing. Every living and non-living thing has its respect if you will respect it, in return it will respect you. For example if you are driving car, it has its respect and road as its won respect. If you will give the due respect to car and road by driving it properly with in the safety limits of the road in return you will be respected, and if you will insult the car and the road then same will come to you. So you must learn to respect. Azam Paki Psychology is an art not a science, you can teach a person 'art' you can not make him/her artist" Azam Paki "Break the rule! only If you can make a better one" Azam Paki THIS REALITY REALLY BITEs "Its better to have foolish kids than foolish parents, because can you teach you kids, you can't teach you parents" Azam Paki, Dec 2008 "Be the one most hated by Devil" Azam Paki Most successful entrepreneurs of the world are those people, who are jack of all trades so never mind if you are one" Azam Paki "Being Pro-active,Pre-emptive is mostly a foolish thing to do, this means act first and think later" Azam Paki I said this for Pakistan,
but apply to every one provided you have identified you friends and foes. "If you do not know what is good for you and what is not, then do what your enemy wants you to stop from and do not do what your enemy wants you to do" Azam Paki |