Creating Safety and Balance
By Pamela Woll If your post-trauma reactions are causing challenges for you or others around you, chances are those challenges won't just solve themselves. But for many people who are having trouble with post-trauma effects, they're reluctant to open up about subjects they might feel a lot of shame about, or dig deep into memories that are full of pain, anger, and fear. Others may shy away from any kind of help that’s going to take a long time or require that they talk about feelings or personal things. You might think of the help that's available in two basic types:
The first type of
help—in managing your triggers and reactions—is in many ways more training than
therapy. You don't have to relive the
past or explore your feelings if you don't want to, and you can start in small, manageable
ways. For example: |
