First, be sure he has cheated. If you are not sure, ensure that first else you would hurt him very much. Now that you are 100% sure he has cheated you gotta keep your emotions in control. You gotta decide whether you want to end the marriage and when. Crying and screaming won't convert a cheat. A cheater is a cheater. Given another chance he will cheat again. After he comes home from the fuck, ask him why he is smelling like a goat. He would say " I don't smell anything". You reply "Then the people you were with must be pigs". This would send a kick down his spine. Now at this point the best thing for you would be avoid a confrontation and prepare to move out of his (if it is) house. Once you got your next destination fixed you can send the lawyers down his track and ask for a huge alimony. Enjoy! Coping emotionally: Injustices happen with people every single day. Not just you. Even as I type some abusive husband somewhere in this world is beating the hell out of his wife. The government does nothing. In a situation like this you gotta be strong as iron. Knowing first hand that government, civilization and law system is a joke is knowing almost 50% of everything in this world. This wasn't written in the University books. Nor it was shown on CNN or Fox News. You know it now, first hand. Now all you have to do is handle yourself. How to do that. here are the steps
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