Working in a virtual world has its limitations. I sometimes miss the personal contact of seeing all of you face to face. It can be difficult to really "connect" in a meaningful way. We hear it all the time. I can't count the times I have heard the phrase ... "it's all about relationships." However, we never seem to have the time to really cultivate these.
"Reeder's Digest" is my attempt to connect with each one of you in the Early Childhood Initiative Learning Community -- and also to allow a place where you can freely exchange your ideas with all of our peers in this community.
Each post is dated, with a description of what is contained in the entry. Click on the dated title of each post and it will open up and enable you to access the comment & attachment functionality. If you scroll to the bottom of each post you will find a place to add your own comments, and interact with others who have posted comments. Any attachments related to the content of the post will also be found as you scroll to the bottom of the post.
I hope you will join in this lively conversation!
My best to each of you,
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posted Aug 4, 2009 3:19 PM by Martha Reeder
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August 3, 2009 ........."So That . . ."So . . . . July has been way more hectic than I ever planned on. What was I thinking, anyway? Probably just not thinking. It started out great -- in New York City, then home for July 4th celebration with family and friends. Then digging into a list of reports coming due, grant applications to send out, conversations to be had, people to talk to, places to go. Then a meeting with national Strengthening Families partners in D.C. -- then a great visit with Fran Inge at the Virginia Family and Children's Trust Fund. Home to tackle those reports again. . . a new venture into attempting to put together a video report (still working on that one), more phone calls, more reports . . . .
That phrase "so that" starts to resonate with me. How do I find my way to the bottom of the pile? "So That" is really a way of life, isn't it? We do this, "so that" the next thing can get done, and so on and so on -- forgive me -- "so that" and "so that." I have even heard through the grapevine that these darn "so that" chains are about to drive some of you to distraction. Sometimes we all need to Stop -- Take A Big Breath -- and remember why we are about all of this craziness.
When there is a moment of stillness in the midst of all of this report writing --- I am reminded once again of why we do this. Your own words and reports to me serve as a reminder. I see all of your efforts -- I see evidence of children and families changed forever. You know that we do this so that . . . . . . . (Click here to see my "So That" Chain)
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posted Jul 15, 2009 11:08 AM by Martha Reeder
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updated Aug 4, 2009 3:40 PM
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Some
Reflections(Click on this link to view some photo reflections) After teaching at a university for many years, in 2003 I
began working for the State of Arkansas.
One of the most difficult things about adjusting to being a bureaucrat
for me was adjusting to the work year – no summers off. As a teacher, I even felt that I had
two lives – and spent my summers doing a variety of things that had little to
do with teaching. I’m not sure that I have really adjusted to the “12 month”
mentality – even now. I guess I
always expect summer to be a downtime and a time for renewing and revitalizing
my spirit. This summer has
certainly not been a time of inactivity with the Early Childhood Initiative –
there are many things in process at the moment. I am energized as I witness all of the innovative things that you are planning and doing. I am in the process of preparing a final report to the
Mailman Foundation on our Strengthening Families Through QRIS work. The ECI states involved in this work
are Idaho, Pennsylvania and Tennessee.
They have done some amazing things, and I really hope to represent their
work well in the report. We hope
to expand this work to other states that are seeking ways to embed the SF/PF
Framework into their state’s QRIS.
The progress report to the Doris Duke Charitable Foundation is
due soon as well, and there are so many things to report. It has been a year of assessment –
where are we with really embracing the SF/PF Framework – how can we focus and
prioritize what we are doing for the greatest impact? You helped with this process as we co-created the Theory of
Change. I know that for some folks
who are not “process” people, this was difficult. But now we do have a road map, and I hope it will serve us
well to guide what is ahead. Today, I will send out guidelines for up to 12 mini-grants
of $5,000 each. These will
hopefully be instrumental in helping you to accomplish some of the steps you
outlined in your “So That” chains and action plans. At this time next year, it is my hope that we will have many
stories to tell about how this came to pass and how children and families are continuing to be impacted in an array of positive ways. Even as these plans are unfolding, I am giving serious
thought to our coming together in Atlanta in October. On the evening of Monday, October 26 you are all invited to
a reception celebrating the 20 th Anniversary of the Alliance. This will be the culmination of the annual
Alliance membership meeting (have you made your plans to be a part of
this? See: October Meetings in Atlanta). Then all day on Tuesday, October 27,
the Early Childhood Initiative will meet for our annual meeting. This is less time that we had last
year, and we want to maximize this time of being together. I am considering several possibilities
for utilizing this time, but really do want your input as planning emerges. I have attached
below a rough sketch of some of the matters that seem to be pressing that might
catch our attention for this time.
Please take a few moments to look these over and give me your
feedback.
Next week I will be in D.C. for a meeting of the SFNN
National Partners. Part of this
meeting will focus on planning for the SF Leadership Summit (October 28-29). This will be such
an exciting and eventful week in Atlanta. After I return next week I hope to schedule a time for an
open conversation with you about what might be the most beneficial ways that we
can focus and prioritize our time at the ECI meeting. Please stay tuned and let me hear from you. Oh yes – some of you know that last
week was my birthday. What with
celebrating a birthday, writing summary and progress reports – there has been a
lot of reflection and reliving the past year in my mind. That in itself is a form or renewal and
revitalization. I hope that you
are finding these summer months to be such a time for you and your work as
well.
Martha
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posted Jul 1, 2009 4:33 PM by Martha Reeder
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updated Jul 2, 2009 8:34 AM
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“Are
You Going to Scarborough Faire?”  ( Reeder’s Digest - July 1, 2009)
Do you remember the song “Are you
going to Scarborough Faire?” (Click on the hyperlink above.) It is a song with an unusual text, as many of the songs that
speak to us about the human condition across the ages. The lyrics tell just enough and leave
out just enough, that everyone can recognize themselves. For me, it is a poignant and beautiful
song, but carries with it a twist of humor as well. Years ago, when I first began tending an herb garden each
summer, my husband would sing this song to me and chide me if I failed to plant
all the herbs listed in the song.
Now every year I make sure to include parsley, sage, rosemary and
thyme. Herbs take almost no effort
to grow, but every summer my family and friends are the beneficiaries of the
delights of my herb garden. The
fresh herbs add just the right touch to all things sweet and savory – a
refreshing rosemary and minted lemon tea, a fresh pesto prepared and tossed at
the last minute into a pasta dish, a simple soup of summer squash with fried
sage leaves. Getting the
idea? Just a little effort, but
many lovely returns.
A typical week for me might
include several conversations with some of you and perhaps a trip to a meeting
such as the one I attended at the National Center for Children in Poverty
earlier this week. Many times I am
learning new and amazing things.
At other times, a moment in a conversation with you might reveal a brand
new insight to me. I want to
share, to flavor our conversations with these “small but significant”
morsels. It occurred to me that as
a Learning Community, all of you involved in the Early Childhood Initiative
have much to share. We already
have many rich and satisfying opportunities to “season” our individual work
with the thoughtfulness and experience of others who are learning alongside us
each day about how to be more effective at strengthening families.
That is why I have launched this
endeavor – “Reeder’s Digest.” I do
not presume that my thoughts and experiences are particularly enlightening or
groundbreaking. However, it is my
hope that this may be a way that we can share with each other even the smallest
tidbits to help us collectively benefit from the insights that can so easily
vanish when not shared. Please
share your thoughts about what you may find here, or comment on what others may
bring to the table. Are you going
to Scarborough Faire . . . or anywhere else, as a matter of fact? While you are out there going, touching
the lives of children and families, why not share a bit about what you are
experiencing or observing? You may
not feel that your thoughts are ready for a peer-reviewed journal, but that
“rough chop” of tantalizing flavor may be just what one of your colleagues
needs to stimulate their own growing perception. Just scroll to the bottom of this page and click on
“Comments.” This will open up a
white text box, where you may type in your thoughts. When you are finished, click on the “Add Comment”
button. I am looking forward to
hearing from all of you.
My best to you,
Martha
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