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When I first froze my eggs, I was still dating around. After my boyfriend and I broke up, I went to New York for a couple of months to focus on work. Back then, the thought of early-retirement hadn't occurred to me yet—I can't imagine why not—and there were certain things that I was sure didn't apply to me. One of those things was that I would end up compromising my career to have kids, or that I'd end up with a man who felt he had settled for an "easy" life because there was no way I would put in the work necessary to be a mother.

Two years later, it's strange how quickly everything can change.

I've written about how I froze my eggs before, but in the past year I've experienced something that deserves its own post. My ex-boyfriend (he was never my boyfriend) and I started seeing each other again when we both moved to New York City for work after college. We spent five years becoming best friends, and it wasn't until I was ready to move on that he admitted there were feelings between us all along.

After taking some time to think about it, it became clear that my career is one of the most important things in my life right now, but so is having children eventually. It would be unfair to myself and any future partner if I compromised on either of those things. I couldn't imagine my life without children, and when my ex asked me to give it another try, he never expected me to stay home and start a family at the drop of a hat.